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<blockquote data-quote="missy44" data-source="post: 283575" data-attributes="member: 6201"><p>well i reported everything. i don't know when or if anything will happen, i guess the stuff i know is peanuts compared to the "big times". i'm not the only one who knows what is going on and i'm not the only one who has reported these things which is good. i know something will happen, someone will get caught, just don't know when. i feel much better.</p><p> </p><p>my son has moved home. the girl he's been st vaying with is going home to visit her parents for 3 weeks and we didn't want our son staying there on his own, and our son wanted to come home.</p><p> </p><p>he looks well, is still job hunting, has an interview next week. he's going to his psyc, continuing with the farm program (until he has a job) and next week his psyc and his counsellors are taking him to a golf tournament. My son used to be a wonderful golfer so i think it will be good for him. i can see over the last month he has gained about 20 pounds (it looks so good on him) and his eyes look so clear. His smile looks nice too.</p><p> </p><p>he has a new girlfriend ( i worry a bit about this), he falls hard for girls! she has made it very clear that if he uses any drugs she's out of there. even cigarettes! so far so good. he doesn't have his old friends right now so she's been filling the void. she lives out of the city (2 hours away) until august when she'll return for college so he visits her on the weekends. we've been buying him bus tickets to get there.</p><p> </p><p>he reapplied for college (late) for the social work programme and he seems excited. i don't know whether or not the application will go through because he was late, we'll see.</p><p> </p><p>his "buddy" (old friend that dropped him when he ran out of money and is also the "hard drug" supplier to many) contacted him to see if he would "jam" with him and some others. my heart jumped. my son loves to jam. he's a great drummer and used to have a band. my son responded to him saying that he CAN'T play with him right now, he's getting his sh*t together and also said "you didn't seem concerned about jamming with me a month ago when you dropped me". i told my son he could have some of his "non drugs" friends over to jam so that he can still play.</p><p> </p><p>Thanks all, I'm cautiously optimistic. I'm trying not to get my hopes up, i know this can all change so quickly. Today is great and i'm trying to focus on that. my hubby and i are going to session today to help us with this transition. if we had our way we'd lock him up and never let him out but we know that we have to learn to live with this. we just need help on how "we" should deal with him now that he's home. our rules right now, no drugs, no drugs, no drugs and keep looking for job.</p><p> </p><p>bye for now.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="missy44, post: 283575, member: 6201"] well i reported everything. i don't know when or if anything will happen, i guess the stuff i know is peanuts compared to the "big times". i'm not the only one who knows what is going on and i'm not the only one who has reported these things which is good. i know something will happen, someone will get caught, just don't know when. i feel much better. my son has moved home. the girl he's been st vaying with is going home to visit her parents for 3 weeks and we didn't want our son staying there on his own, and our son wanted to come home. he looks well, is still job hunting, has an interview next week. he's going to his psyc, continuing with the farm program (until he has a job) and next week his psyc and his counsellors are taking him to a golf tournament. My son used to be a wonderful golfer so i think it will be good for him. i can see over the last month he has gained about 20 pounds (it looks so good on him) and his eyes look so clear. His smile looks nice too. he has a new girlfriend ( i worry a bit about this), he falls hard for girls! she has made it very clear that if he uses any drugs she's out of there. even cigarettes! so far so good. he doesn't have his old friends right now so she's been filling the void. she lives out of the city (2 hours away) until august when she'll return for college so he visits her on the weekends. we've been buying him bus tickets to get there. he reapplied for college (late) for the social work programme and he seems excited. i don't know whether or not the application will go through because he was late, we'll see. his "buddy" (old friend that dropped him when he ran out of money and is also the "hard drug" supplier to many) contacted him to see if he would "jam" with him and some others. my heart jumped. my son loves to jam. he's a great drummer and used to have a band. my son responded to him saying that he CAN'T play with him right now, he's getting his sh*t together and also said "you didn't seem concerned about jamming with me a month ago when you dropped me". i told my son he could have some of his "non drugs" friends over to jam so that he can still play. Thanks all, I'm cautiously optimistic. I'm trying not to get my hopes up, i know this can all change so quickly. Today is great and i'm trying to focus on that. my hubby and i are going to session today to help us with this transition. if we had our way we'd lock him up and never let him out but we know that we have to learn to live with this. we just need help on how "we" should deal with him now that he's home. our rules right now, no drugs, no drugs, no drugs and keep looking for job. bye for now. [/QUOTE]
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