On a positive note...Josh passed his DL test yesterday and now has his license! And...he has a job interview this morning for a seasonal job at a plant nursery just 200 yards from our house, so he can walk to work. God is being so good to him, but I don't know if he even recognizes it. I plan on pointing this out to him very soon.
The last two days, my husband has been working on Josh's tax returns for the last two years (he didn't file any) to see if he is owed some money. So far, he's found some and maybe a little more to come. Josh is pretty excited about that. I'm curious to see if Josh will express any appreciation. If not, I plan on pointing that out, as well as his ingratitude. There are two things I can't handle with people: disrespect and ingratitude. It may not do a bit of good, but somebody has to point out to him how ungrateful he is, even if he chooses never to change. For myself, if it doesn't change, I will eventually stop going the second mile for him. I'm just not going to do it forever, and I'm going to let him know that there will be a point where we no longer help if he can't/won't show any appreciation for what we are trying to do to help him.
