So my husband took me and our DS, Josh, out for lunch yesterday, using his birthday money. Not a word of thanks from Josh. This morning, I'm making him a batch of homemade cookies, in an attempt to make him feel welcome and cared for. I happen to mention that I'm going to go to a food bank and help pack backpacks for kids and would he like to come, since they need volunteers because of the Covid19. He replies, "Not unless someone is gonna give me some money. And I don't know why you're volunteering to help other people, when you should be helping me. It's always other people. You should be helping me get a car..." blah, blah, blah. I'm so angry I'm fit to be tied. I just wanted to turn around and say, "You know, you are a pathetic human being." I had to leave the room and sit down and come to this site just to keep myself from sinning with my mouth, which I have a problem with. Thanks for listening. How do people become so incredibly selfish and miserable as human beings? Showing them love and care doesn't seem to make any difference in their outlook.