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<blockquote data-quote="Beta" data-source="post: 744086" data-attributes="member: 22597"><p>RN0441, thank you for your kind and encouraging words. I don't know either how I would have gotten through this last year without God. I try to remember that He's in control and that He doesn't waste suffering but uses it, and I can say that I am closer and more needy of Him than I was. I am looking forward to talking with the psychologist, even if it's only for a session or two because I need to understand how to think about all this and how to respond, how to "detach with love" as you mentioned. I think all of us miss the sweet, loving, innocent boys and girls who once brought so much joy into our lives. And like you, right now, although I love J, I absolutely dislike him. He is not a nice person at all. He is profane, racist, blasphemous, dishonest. I want to see him but I don't want to see him, if that makes any sense. I rejoice with you that your son sounds like he is moving forward in a positive way. In these circumstances, "small" things such as caring for himself, holding a job, making his bed---those are not small things!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Beta, post: 744086, member: 22597"] RN0441, thank you for your kind and encouraging words. I don't know either how I would have gotten through this last year without God. I try to remember that He's in control and that He doesn't waste suffering but uses it, and I can say that I am closer and more needy of Him than I was. I am looking forward to talking with the psychologist, even if it's only for a session or two because I need to understand how to think about all this and how to respond, how to "detach with love" as you mentioned. I think all of us miss the sweet, loving, innocent boys and girls who once brought so much joy into our lives. And like you, right now, although I love J, I absolutely dislike him. He is not a nice person at all. He is profane, racist, blasphemous, dishonest. I want to see him but I don't want to see him, if that makes any sense. I rejoice with you that your son sounds like he is moving forward in a positive way. In these circumstances, "small" things such as caring for himself, holding a job, making his bed---those are not small things! [/QUOTE]
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