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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 322596" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Pack it up before she gets there. Turn it into a bare room. Make SURE you have plastic covers to zip the mattress into so when she is gone you can just wipe it down and take it off, then put clean sheets on it and have a good night's sleep in peace.</p><p></p><p>As for the stuff she damages, wy don't YOU ask your mom to replace the stuff? To chip in when you are at the end of the budget. Not for always, but for now. You had enough stress, now you have your mom shipping your gfgsister to help mess up YOUR education? Cause part of sister's MO will be to keep you from getting anything she doesn't have, including your degree and a job. Or she will want $$$ from you to stay away from your work and not cause problems there.</p><p></p><p>I am glad you are seeing some options other than letting sis and mom run all overy you. </p><p></p><p>Yes. MOM. She is a big part of this. You simply MUST tell her, at some point, that you cannot raise your older sister. Or take care of her.</p><p></p><p>in my opinion your sister will land on her feet if mom pulls support away from her. There will be ugliness, sure, bu that is what restraining orders and off buttons are for. You may have to do it first to show your Mom how it is done.</p><p></p><p>May hugs,</p><p></p><p>Susie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 322596, member: 1233"] Pack it up before she gets there. Turn it into a bare room. Make SURE you have plastic covers to zip the mattress into so when she is gone you can just wipe it down and take it off, then put clean sheets on it and have a good night's sleep in peace. As for the stuff she damages, wy don't YOU ask your mom to replace the stuff? To chip in when you are at the end of the budget. Not for always, but for now. You had enough stress, now you have your mom shipping your gfgsister to help mess up YOUR education? Cause part of sister's MO will be to keep you from getting anything she doesn't have, including your degree and a job. Or she will want $$$ from you to stay away from your work and not cause problems there. I am glad you are seeing some options other than letting sis and mom run all overy you. Yes. MOM. She is a big part of this. You simply MUST tell her, at some point, that you cannot raise your older sister. Or take care of her. in my opinion your sister will land on her feet if mom pulls support away from her. There will be ugliness, sure, bu that is what restraining orders and off buttons are for. You may have to do it first to show your Mom how it is done. May hugs, Susie [/QUOTE]
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