Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
General Discussions
The Watercooler
Rant, whining.
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="maxeygirls" data-source="post: 340424" data-attributes="member: 8869"><p>In the end I think it comes down to his own insecurities. This may require counseling. His solution right now I fear is to move to another place and get me pregnant again ASAP...another baby was in the plans but not right away. Not a good plan husband, not good at all. </p><p>StepTo2- everything you brought up is very valid. I would never put myself in a situation alone with another man who is not my husband and we will be at the park with our kids and about 50 other kids. </p><p>There is a bit of comraderie with military and past military members as well and this friend is military, I am prior service. There is also <em>usually</em> a high level of respect in regards to honorable soldiers being around wives with husbands overseas. This friend I know understands and respects that. </p><p>I honestly don't know how we'll do when husband comes home. We were on rocky ground before and building to something better. I can say that I won't do anything to put that in jeapordy. I also won't give up unless the marriage becomes unhealthy for myself or our girls. </p><p>Im just fed up. For the last 5 years I have allowed friendship after friendship to die off simply because he didn't trust the guy friend or the girl friend wanted to do activities which worried him... like going to the state fair without husband, going shopping, going out with married female colleagues for a drink after work... you get the idea. </p><p>I won't bring up the past of what he has done because we discussed it at length and made a deal to leave the past in the past. I trust him to stick to his word now and I trust his judgement. He goes out without me and yet I sit at home. Ok Im done ranting and raving. Im sorry, Im just fed up and sick of only being around my girls. I love them to death but we all need a break and some adult interaction, right?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="maxeygirls, post: 340424, member: 8869"] In the end I think it comes down to his own insecurities. This may require counseling. His solution right now I fear is to move to another place and get me pregnant again ASAP...another baby was in the plans but not right away. Not a good plan husband, not good at all. StepTo2- everything you brought up is very valid. I would never put myself in a situation alone with another man who is not my husband and we will be at the park with our kids and about 50 other kids. There is a bit of comraderie with military and past military members as well and this friend is military, I am prior service. There is also [I]usually[/I] a high level of respect in regards to honorable soldiers being around wives with husbands overseas. This friend I know understands and respects that. I honestly don't know how we'll do when husband comes home. We were on rocky ground before and building to something better. I can say that I won't do anything to put that in jeapordy. I also won't give up unless the marriage becomes unhealthy for myself or our girls. Im just fed up. For the last 5 years I have allowed friendship after friendship to die off simply because he didn't trust the guy friend or the girl friend wanted to do activities which worried him... like going to the state fair without husband, going shopping, going out with married female colleagues for a drink after work... you get the idea. I won't bring up the past of what he has done because we discussed it at length and made a deal to leave the past in the past. I trust him to stick to his word now and I trust his judgement. He goes out without me and yet I sit at home. Ok Im done ranting and raving. Im sorry, Im just fed up and sick of only being around my girls. I love them to death but we all need a break and some adult interaction, right? [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
General Discussions
The Watercooler
Rant, whining.
Top