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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 340444" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>in my humble opinion, any person, male or female, who attempts to isolate another person, male or female, (ie move to another place and get pregnant again, doesn't like you to have female friends, etc) has some control issues and you need to do exactly the opposite. Maybe husband is all good and this is all jsut related to past issues that need to be dealt with; but it also means he may have some serious insecurities and control issues, for which outside relationships will be VITAL for you to have.</p><p> </p><p>I encourage you to meet your old friend. Ask him if he knows other friends, maybe with kids the same age, male or female, who'd want to do a weekly outing...one with kids, maybe another without, but as a group, in a public place, etc. You have a difficult child. You have a deployed husband. You have a baby. You may have a controlling husband. Any ONE of those NEEDS a network. You have all four.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 340444, member: 1848"] in my humble opinion, any person, male or female, who attempts to isolate another person, male or female, (ie move to another place and get pregnant again, doesn't like you to have female friends, etc) has some control issues and you need to do exactly the opposite. Maybe husband is all good and this is all jsut related to past issues that need to be dealt with; but it also means he may have some serious insecurities and control issues, for which outside relationships will be VITAL for you to have. I encourage you to meet your old friend. Ask him if he knows other friends, maybe with kids the same age, male or female, who'd want to do a weekly outing...one with kids, maybe another without, but as a group, in a public place, etc. You have a difficult child. You have a deployed husband. You have a baby. You may have a controlling husband. Any ONE of those NEEDS a network. You have all four. [/QUOTE]
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