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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 732888" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Look. OH. One thing I have learned here is that I am more sensitive to slights, real or not, or perceived hurts. I take things here more personally not less.</p><p></p><p>I find this fascinating. Because I would have thought it would be the opposite.</p><p></p><p>All I make of it is that in the absence of body language, voice, seeing and being with each other, we imagine ieach other with a great deal of vividness and intensity and even yearning. We are more open to what we wish for and need.</p><p></p><p>I was told by a woman no longer here that relationships here are way more intense due to the relative safety we feel at a distance. But the paradox is that we bring way more intensity to the table, due to this safety.</p><p></p><p>I understand that what I think and feel has no bearing to you, but this is what this thread speaks to for me.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 732888, member: 18958"] Look. OH. One thing I have learned here is that I am more sensitive to slights, real or not, or perceived hurts. I take things here more personally not less. I find this fascinating. Because I would have thought it would be the opposite. All I make of it is that in the absence of body language, voice, seeing and being with each other, we imagine ieach other with a great deal of vividness and intensity and even yearning. We are more open to what we wish for and need. I was told by a woman no longer here that relationships here are way more intense due to the relative safety we feel at a distance. But the paradox is that we bring way more intensity to the table, due to this safety. I understand that what I think and feel has no bearing to you, but this is what this thread speaks to for me. [/QUOTE]
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