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<blockquote data-quote="adearing01" data-source="post: 162377" data-attributes="member: 5370"><p>My husband and I have been dating since September. He was not introduced to my children until just before Christmas. At first they loved it when he came over, but now they just seem to ignore him. All of you have confirmed what I believe to be true. He has to back off and just work on developing a relationship with them and show that he is my supporter no matter what happens.</p><p> </p><p>He is the father of 2. Son-difficult child-7: diagnosis Pervasive Developmental Disorder (PDD), Daughter-easy child-5.</p><p> </p><p>We were married two weeks ago. We have discussed the yelling issue several times. He is so adamant that he is right that yelling works. He says "9 times out of 10 he will do what I am telling him to do, so it must work." I know how he feels sort of because I was very adamant when difficult child was 3 that he was not going to make me change how I parented him. I have since changed my oppinion. To be the best parent to him I must explore all types of discipline and positive reinforcement programs or ideas that I can. I would fail him as a parent if I did not make changes in myself to give him the best future possible. </p><p> </p><p>We have been seeing a counselor, but I have also requested that we get some help in the home from the summer program that he attends. This was the most effective in helping me previously and I feel that it would help now as well. (kinda like the nanny)</p><p> </p><p>Anyway, I forgot to post that he also has absence siezures and takes Zarontin</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="adearing01, post: 162377, member: 5370"] My husband and I have been dating since September. He was not introduced to my children until just before Christmas. At first they loved it when he came over, but now they just seem to ignore him. All of you have confirmed what I believe to be true. He has to back off and just work on developing a relationship with them and show that he is my supporter no matter what happens. He is the father of 2. Son-difficult child-7: diagnosis Pervasive Developmental Disorder (PDD), Daughter-easy child-5. We were married two weeks ago. We have discussed the yelling issue several times. He is so adamant that he is right that yelling works. He says "9 times out of 10 he will do what I am telling him to do, so it must work." I know how he feels sort of because I was very adamant when difficult child was 3 that he was not going to make me change how I parented him. I have since changed my oppinion. To be the best parent to him I must explore all types of discipline and positive reinforcement programs or ideas that I can. I would fail him as a parent if I did not make changes in myself to give him the best future possible. We have been seeing a counselor, but I have also requested that we get some help in the home from the summer program that he attends. This was the most effective in helping me previously and I feel that it would help now as well. (kinda like the nanny) Anyway, I forgot to post that he also has absence siezures and takes Zarontin [/QUOTE]
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