You are not alone - it is a fear that has plagued me since my difficult child was a little guy. I would go to bed at night crying, worrying that I was going to have to visit him in jail for a horrendous crime one day. I still worry about it, but try and project positive images towards his future. This Va thing, however, has caused all those fears to resurface.........aaaggghhh! I am with you - it is a haunting, horrible fear that none of us like to admit - but I guess we can only try and remain positive.
