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Yes, you have done everything you can do, and now it is up to him. You can detatch without giving up hope. My husband believed my difficult child would never be able to get clean and do what he needs to do and difficult child proved him wrong. Maybe someday Corey will prove you wrong and he will want the help he needs. Until then you need to detatch knowing you have done everything you can possibly do, and now it is totally up to him.