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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 432805" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Well, if I was in the camp that said -</p><p> </p><p>She's a grieving sad, lonely widow who has dealt with loss, and grief and is sad, and has always been the most wonderful Mother (and the rest of the board doesn't know the inside track like I do). I could believe this maybe. I'm more inclined to believe she has felt all along that you were the OTHER family that was forced on her for year and she had made up her mind once and for all once he (your dad passed) So would all of you. JUST my humble opinion. Timer I'm not saying that you can't be right - you could be, but it's just a feeling that this woman isn't the love that you are - I think she felt stuck and now she's just glad the everything is over. I think her life was a bitter dissapointment and she is probably depressed but not for reasons that we would think she is. I think she's sad that she has regret of wasting her life. Sad to say. </p><p> </p><p>If you're in the other camp and I'm not even sure what that is? I of course, would never do what I said - because if she is old and bitter? To know Janet is to know there is a huge heart and a love so large that if you just reached out a hand? You'll get an entire hug for life. Not a bad exchange as far as I'm concerned. I am pretty sure you could never love someone back as much as she loves you. So it is my opinion that all of this is this womans loss. But if there is any way to win her over or any want of doing so? It would be on Janets doing. And not by my petty vindictive cellphone tirade. But mark my word, if she needed a cellphone and couldn't get one? And this was the solution? I'd send it to her.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 432805, member: 4964"] Well, if I was in the camp that said - She's a grieving sad, lonely widow who has dealt with loss, and grief and is sad, and has always been the most wonderful Mother (and the rest of the board doesn't know the inside track like I do). I could believe this maybe. I'm more inclined to believe she has felt all along that you were the OTHER family that was forced on her for year and she had made up her mind once and for all once he (your dad passed) So would all of you. JUST my humble opinion. Timer I'm not saying that you can't be right - you could be, but it's just a feeling that this woman isn't the love that you are - I think she felt stuck and now she's just glad the everything is over. I think her life was a bitter dissapointment and she is probably depressed but not for reasons that we would think she is. I think she's sad that she has regret of wasting her life. Sad to say. If you're in the other camp and I'm not even sure what that is? I of course, would never do what I said - because if she is old and bitter? To know Janet is to know there is a huge heart and a love so large that if you just reached out a hand? You'll get an entire hug for life. Not a bad exchange as far as I'm concerned. I am pretty sure you could never love someone back as much as she loves you. So it is my opinion that all of this is this womans loss. But if there is any way to win her over or any want of doing so? It would be on Janets doing. And not by my petty vindictive cellphone tirade. But mark my word, if she needed a cellphone and couldn't get one? And this was the solution? I'd send it to her. [/QUOTE]
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