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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 376554" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>JJJ has it right. She has been through a lot of this.</p><p> </p><p>IF they try to force you to have her come home, tell them that she is a bad and dangerous influence on your younger child, and that having her in the home is a danger to his physical, mental and emotional safety. </p><p> </p><p>IF child services gets involved they will soon see that you are doing all you can to make sure your other child is safe. IF they are to take a child, it would be because the places they have to live are unsafe. difficult child has Gma's, your other son has home. If you bring her back home it is quite possible that child services will move - to take easy child and leave difficult child with you!!! It is a whole lot easier and cheaper to find a place for a easy child to stay than for a difficult child.</p><p> </p><p>If the courts are to pay for rehab there is a strong chance they just won't - nobody has any money to enforce it. If you can pay for it privately you might have a chance. Of course it never hurts to ask.</p><p> </p><p>Stay tough, don't let her come home, it isn't a good thing for anyone, including her.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 376554, member: 1233"] JJJ has it right. She has been through a lot of this. IF they try to force you to have her come home, tell them that she is a bad and dangerous influence on your younger child, and that having her in the home is a danger to his physical, mental and emotional safety. IF child services gets involved they will soon see that you are doing all you can to make sure your other child is safe. IF they are to take a child, it would be because the places they have to live are unsafe. difficult child has Gma's, your other son has home. If you bring her back home it is quite possible that child services will move - to take easy child and leave difficult child with you!!! It is a whole lot easier and cheaper to find a place for a easy child to stay than for a difficult child. If the courts are to pay for rehab there is a strong chance they just won't - nobody has any money to enforce it. If you can pay for it privately you might have a chance. Of course it never hurts to ask. Stay tough, don't let her come home, it isn't a good thing for anyone, including her. [/QUOTE]
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