Just bummed to hear that there is not likely light at the end of the tunnel.
I will definitely call the neuropsychologist. I will say the Risperdal is seeming to work with-my daughter. Not perfect, but I am seeing a difference and the teacher has said she's done much better this week. We met with-the psychiatrist for my son. He has pretty much confirmed what I feel - which is that he has the same issues, but on a much milder scale. He has recommended we add a low dose of Concerta in addition to the Intuniv he's taking. Most things are much better with-him except the ODD stuff at home. He's been doing very well in school, thank God. Ugh, every time I think about it all, I just get so so depressed. Thank you all again for the comments and suggestions.