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Really struggling with mother in law and father in law and need some advice
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<blockquote data-quote="Farmwife" data-source="post: 366390" data-attributes="member: 8617"><p>My preggo hormones have shut down my "filter" so when I get junk like you are from people I have zero patience. I have just got to the point where I am sick to death of other people dumping their issues on me. Doesn't matter if it is a family member or clerk at a store. If I am doing my best to be polite and someone has the "good breeding" to be rude/presumptuous/snarky/judgmental I have the good grace to explain simple manners to them. I just got tired of cruising through life avoiding confrontation when other people chose to act in ways that left me feeling bad even though they were the ones who were wrong.</p><p> </p><p>...so I snapped and my "filter" stopped working. IF someone gets ignorant with me I don't bite my tongue anymore. There is no reason why I should feel bad for someone elses lack of consideration. This all leads me to one simple unalienable truth.</p><p> </p><p><u>Unless you neglect or put your child in imminent danger YOUR child equals YOUR rules. No need to feel bad, no need to justify yourself. Period, end of story!!!!</u></p><p> </p><p>How about you spank the grands for breaking your rules next time? Respect is a two way street.<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite4" alt=":mad:" title="Mad :mad:" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":mad:" /> Undermining your authority shows their poor parenting skills.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Farmwife, post: 366390, member: 8617"] My preggo hormones have shut down my "filter" so when I get junk like you are from people I have zero patience. I have just got to the point where I am sick to death of other people dumping their issues on me. Doesn't matter if it is a family member or clerk at a store. If I am doing my best to be polite and someone has the "good breeding" to be rude/presumptuous/snarky/judgmental I have the good grace to explain simple manners to them. I just got tired of cruising through life avoiding confrontation when other people chose to act in ways that left me feeling bad even though they were the ones who were wrong. ...so I snapped and my "filter" stopped working. IF someone gets ignorant with me I don't bite my tongue anymore. There is no reason why I should feel bad for someone elses lack of consideration. This all leads me to one simple unalienable truth. [U]Unless you neglect or put your child in imminent danger YOUR child equals YOUR rules. No need to feel bad, no need to justify yourself. Period, end of story!!!![/U] How about you spank the grands for breaking your rules next time? Respect is a two way street.:angry: Undermining your authority shows their poor parenting skills. [/QUOTE]
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