I have really difficult moments. Per last thread re: daughter having a near stranger and family at her apt. Landlord IS threatening to evict. This one is nicer than the others. Says they like her A LOT, but they are worried she will hurt herself. Also a little worried that the tennants immediatley next door will leave if difficult child keeps up bad behavior. Pseudo squatter remains in little efficiency. husband spoke with- mom who claims girl and this family is flying home WED. Says she will give us the confirmation number next week. Says it was cheaper to fly out Wed. I have gotten used car seat and the people don't care if they ever see it again...it's a start. The cab company said that is probably good enough. We are thinking of just paying a cab company to haul them off to the airport Wed. morning. difficult child is to stay at our place almost exclusively through Wed. She is being a slob and fights with- me if I ask her to pick up after herself. Today, she said she wants to go back to her place. We have NOT told her about the threat of eviction for fear of her going into a rage. She assumes NO responsibility for this whatsoever and barely sees a connection between this current incident and the previous evictions...although they are big time related. I have a call into a local agency. There are few provisions for housing for the MI in our area. They are trying to make an exception for her into a place for "older" individuals. We are going to quietly look at it probably next week. They said the important thing is that she would have to buy into it and cooperate. They are not hopeful about this. Today, she visited their agency. We are hoping she will open up to group theray...a small possibility. She did make use of their pool table and talk to folks there, etc. Right this second...doorbell...son just stopped by. He is moving in about a year...it'll be hard with-o his support. I am numb...it is very tough to see them so clueless...making the same mistakes repeatedly and NOT accepting their role(s) in failures/repeated failures and how they hurt themselves and all around them. It is very concerning and I suppose a little extra so since soooo much has been invested in this child's care....but I know you've heard that before. Had an emergency appointment with- psychiatrist today. She was impressed with- my resiliance. But...it's 6:45...I look like _________ now.........have gotten little done, am thinking of moving in with- my son and I know by the end of the week, there will be little resiliance left. Thanks for letting me get all this out.