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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 167519" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Nomad, </p><p> </p><p>Wow girl do you need a break!!!! HOLY MOLEY! <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/felttip/anxious.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":anxious:" title="anxious :anxious:" data-shortname=":anxious:" /></p><p> </p><p>Question - and I know this must be costing you a varitable fortune, BUT - </p><p> </p><p>If your daughter moved say TODAY out of her apartment- what would happen to the apt? Could you get your deposit back? Maybe call the mother and tell her to send the money in a moneygram for 1st, last. security to the landlord and get your kid out of there and be done with baby seats, airports, cab rides? </p><p> </p><p>Tell the landlord the legalitiy of the situation and move on. They moved in, cops said they have rights - so you're moving your kid OUT and you want your deposit back, the squatters can pay the new deposit. Let the squatters HAVE the place. They won't be able to keep it - Then the landlord would have the problem of eviciting them right? </p><p> </p><p>If this landlord is willing to work with you - I would go get the rest of my daughters stuff, have him tell the squatters they have until Wed. to come up with the 1st, last, sec. and that the lights etc will also be turned off on that day. If she's in an apt. with NO lights and NO water and children ?- tell her that if someone reports their situation to DHEC they will take her kids from her for living somewhere there is no lights or water. That is legal. Since they like playing legally. </p><p> </p><p>If they are moved out - and there is damage then the squatters can be formally charged- like I said before I would go get pictures and walk the landlord through. You dont' have to tell them what you are doing - just do it. COver your butt. </p><p> </p><p>IF when they go you can move your daughter back in? Good. If not - they you, your daughter, and the landlord are ahead of the game - she's out, they're out and the landlord can rent to someone else and maybe you can get your deposits and stuff back? If not you arent' paying for electric for squatters any more - or rent. </p><p> </p><p>Seriously - I hate to sound deviant - but you are dealing with deviant people who have had YEARS of experience skirting the law. If you aren't used to playing their game - you get conned. I lived with a con man for years. </p><p> </p><p>As far as the cab ride to the air port? BS. I'd hand that girl the car seat, I'd also get a picture of THAT proving you provided that for her to get OUT, and tell her to call her mother and tell her that the fare from that apt. to the airport is $XX - you can call the cab company and tell them how many people will be riding and get approx fare. </p><p> </p><p>Another legal thing would be since they came with nothing - if they all leave at the same time? Get husband to change the lock or a locksmith - put their stuff to the curb and call the police and tell them you think there will be problems. </p><p> </p><p>I really think you are being too nice. </p><p> </p><p>Hang in there. </p><p>Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 167519, member: 4964"] Nomad, Wow girl do you need a break!!!! HOLY MOLEY! :anxious: Question - and I know this must be costing you a varitable fortune, BUT - If your daughter moved say TODAY out of her apartment- what would happen to the apt? Could you get your deposit back? Maybe call the mother and tell her to send the money in a moneygram for 1st, last. security to the landlord and get your kid out of there and be done with baby seats, airports, cab rides? Tell the landlord the legalitiy of the situation and move on. They moved in, cops said they have rights - so you're moving your kid OUT and you want your deposit back, the squatters can pay the new deposit. Let the squatters HAVE the place. They won't be able to keep it - Then the landlord would have the problem of eviciting them right? If this landlord is willing to work with you - I would go get the rest of my daughters stuff, have him tell the squatters they have until Wed. to come up with the 1st, last, sec. and that the lights etc will also be turned off on that day. If she's in an apt. with NO lights and NO water and children ?- tell her that if someone reports their situation to DHEC they will take her kids from her for living somewhere there is no lights or water. That is legal. Since they like playing legally. If they are moved out - and there is damage then the squatters can be formally charged- like I said before I would go get pictures and walk the landlord through. You dont' have to tell them what you are doing - just do it. COver your butt. IF when they go you can move your daughter back in? Good. If not - they you, your daughter, and the landlord are ahead of the game - she's out, they're out and the landlord can rent to someone else and maybe you can get your deposits and stuff back? If not you arent' paying for electric for squatters any more - or rent. Seriously - I hate to sound deviant - but you are dealing with deviant people who have had YEARS of experience skirting the law. If you aren't used to playing their game - you get conned. I lived with a con man for years. As far as the cab ride to the air port? BS. I'd hand that girl the car seat, I'd also get a picture of THAT proving you provided that for her to get OUT, and tell her to call her mother and tell her that the fare from that apt. to the airport is $XX - you can call the cab company and tell them how many people will be riding and get approx fare. Another legal thing would be since they came with nothing - if they all leave at the same time? Get husband to change the lock or a locksmith - put their stuff to the curb and call the police and tell them you think there will be problems. I really think you are being too nice. Hang in there. Star [/QUOTE]
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