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Reception, Funeral, and "just another day with the fam"... (omg)
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 135207" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>What does your husband do when his mom treats you this way? Stand up for you, ignore her next invitation, ignore her at all costs, join her, ??</p><p> </p><p>Years and years ago I could not understand how husband could live and hour from his parents and sister and see them max two or three times a year. I pushed to see them more often. So we did. Then we moved away. Now we are back and husband can set whatever visits he wants. I don't push it at all. He never let them dog me, but never stood up for himself. I did, and then spent a year or so censoring every contact we had with them. I could just not tolerate some of the things said to him. </p><p> </p><p>I would talk with your husband about it. Be open, ask what he wants, tell him how you feel, and then see what works best for your family. </p><p> </p><p>Glad you had a wonderful time at the wedding! My gma used to dance with us like that. I love the way wee difficult child stopped the talk at Denny's! Reminded me of my difficult child - can remember him at about 4 scolding some stranger for using "grown up words" (what I used to call cussing when he was little).</p><p> </p><p>Hugs,</p><p> </p><p>Susie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 135207, member: 1233"] What does your husband do when his mom treats you this way? Stand up for you, ignore her next invitation, ignore her at all costs, join her, ?? Years and years ago I could not understand how husband could live and hour from his parents and sister and see them max two or three times a year. I pushed to see them more often. So we did. Then we moved away. Now we are back and husband can set whatever visits he wants. I don't push it at all. He never let them dog me, but never stood up for himself. I did, and then spent a year or so censoring every contact we had with them. I could just not tolerate some of the things said to him. I would talk with your husband about it. Be open, ask what he wants, tell him how you feel, and then see what works best for your family. Glad you had a wonderful time at the wedding! My gma used to dance with us like that. I love the way wee difficult child stopped the talk at Denny's! Reminded me of my difficult child - can remember him at about 4 scolding some stranger for using "grown up words" (what I used to call cussing when he was little). Hugs, Susie [/QUOTE]
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