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<blockquote data-quote="BackintheSaddle" data-source="post: 623523" data-attributes="member: 17503"><p>I love that imagery...I know what scene you mean but it has been a long time since I saw it...I've downloaded the book (verbal abuse) you recommended and reading it this afternoon...something happened with difficult child that seems to be pretty telling...I had emailed him about the latest with his grandfather and to ask them to stop torturing me...I had never brought him in the middle before and apologized for it this time but that I really need his help...I also told him that I would always be open to a loving relationship with him but he knew where to find me...that I was going to leave him alone for a time so he can figure things out but for him to know I'd welcome having him back in my life and working things out...he replied to thank me for the email and said he'd like to have a relationship too but won't agree to it until I apologize (same story)...</p><p> </p><p>so I asked him to tell me exactly what I was apologizing for-- I said I mean it sincerely, that I don't know that his emails so far seem to indicate I need to apologize for everything...he didn't reply for awhile and then yesterday I got a reply that said he'd tell me in a few days "sorry for the delay"...I don't know if you remember but emails from him recently have been written by someone else...it was clear to all of us who read it that he was being coached on what to say and it wasn't pretty...so I wrote back and said 'ok, thanks'...then said that if this time is a time when he's not writing the reply by himself, do not expect a response from me...I want to talk to MY SON and hear only from him and have him tell me what's in his heart...if he can't do that, then please don't reply</p><p> </p><p>nothing since....our guess is the old man was writing it for him and now they don't know what to do..I have no doubt something is coming and just hope it's not a bullet from that crazy old man...it's scary here, waiting to see what they're capable of...the 2 of them together, apparently on a mission to destroy me or 'prove' I'm wrong and they're right and all will be well if I apologize for all my wrongness....yeah, right...had a rough night but having a lovely day so taking it hour by hour this week!</p><p> </p><p>Thanks for all your kind and thoughtful replies!! hope RE replies at some point too! you two are very wise!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BackintheSaddle, post: 623523, member: 17503"] I love that imagery...I know what scene you mean but it has been a long time since I saw it...I've downloaded the book (verbal abuse) you recommended and reading it this afternoon...something happened with difficult child that seems to be pretty telling...I had emailed him about the latest with his grandfather and to ask them to stop torturing me...I had never brought him in the middle before and apologized for it this time but that I really need his help...I also told him that I would always be open to a loving relationship with him but he knew where to find me...that I was going to leave him alone for a time so he can figure things out but for him to know I'd welcome having him back in my life and working things out...he replied to thank me for the email and said he'd like to have a relationship too but won't agree to it until I apologize (same story)... so I asked him to tell me exactly what I was apologizing for-- I said I mean it sincerely, that I don't know that his emails so far seem to indicate I need to apologize for everything...he didn't reply for awhile and then yesterday I got a reply that said he'd tell me in a few days "sorry for the delay"...I don't know if you remember but emails from him recently have been written by someone else...it was clear to all of us who read it that he was being coached on what to say and it wasn't pretty...so I wrote back and said 'ok, thanks'...then said that if this time is a time when he's not writing the reply by himself, do not expect a response from me...I want to talk to MY SON and hear only from him and have him tell me what's in his heart...if he can't do that, then please don't reply nothing since....our guess is the old man was writing it for him and now they don't know what to do..I have no doubt something is coming and just hope it's not a bullet from that crazy old man...it's scary here, waiting to see what they're capable of...the 2 of them together, apparently on a mission to destroy me or 'prove' I'm wrong and they're right and all will be well if I apologize for all my wrongness....yeah, right...had a rough night but having a lovely day so taking it hour by hour this week! Thanks for all your kind and thoughtful replies!! hope RE replies at some point too! you two are very wise! [/QUOTE]
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