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I have decided to approach M like an anthropologist. I will study his behaviors and ceremonies and his language. To learn it as if it is the key to my deepest missing knowledge.


To begin with I decided I must be present. Gazing intently into his eyes, sitting facing him. And listening without expectation.


He has been ill two days: diarrhea nausea muscle pain all over.


He told me that he believes his father is not permitting his mother to speak to the children, so as to not complain about how he is treating her. That she is a prisoner in the house, of him.  He also told me that his sister (the one I like) has been talking to M's estranged wife when she goes to Mexico, gossiping to her about him and us. He does not believe her intent is malicious but more foolishness and not understanding the damage she can do.


He is afraid of her helping me because he fears that she will gossip about him and us to me, and that it will injure me and how I think about him.


Already I am learning things.


COPA


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