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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 567373" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I think you should run, run, run and never look back. Do you REALLY want your daughters to be around this very disturbed child? You can't do anything about this man's ex or his willingness to let her manipulate him into spending time and money on her, BUt you can keep your daughters safe and count your blessings that you don't live with them...and in my opinion I would never ever consider it. There are plenty of good men out there who don't have such disturbed children. Even if your new guy admits his son has problems, it will be years, if ever, before they can be solved and you do have those girls. Kiss him good-bye.</p><p></p><p>I would get a lawyer now and plan to plead with that lawyer to help you keep the child away from your unborn child (after she is born). He won't be safe with her and you can't force this guy from thinking it's ok for this son to be alone with his new sister or brother.</p><p></p><p>Personally, to me this child sounds like he has attachment disorder, which is serious and due to lack of good caregiving and lots of chaos as an infant and young toddler. It is very hard to help unattached children. The sexual stuff is way out of the realm of ADHD. And don't fool yourself that this is all ex's fault. Why didn't your boyfriend protect his children from this alcoholic woman? Why do they live with her and why didn't he get custody? Lots of ??? here, but I'd do what I could to protect your child-to-be from this situation.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 567373, member: 1550"] I think you should run, run, run and never look back. Do you REALLY want your daughters to be around this very disturbed child? You can't do anything about this man's ex or his willingness to let her manipulate him into spending time and money on her, BUt you can keep your daughters safe and count your blessings that you don't live with them...and in my opinion I would never ever consider it. There are plenty of good men out there who don't have such disturbed children. Even if your new guy admits his son has problems, it will be years, if ever, before they can be solved and you do have those girls. Kiss him good-bye. I would get a lawyer now and plan to plead with that lawyer to help you keep the child away from your unborn child (after she is born). He won't be safe with her and you can't force this guy from thinking it's ok for this son to be alone with his new sister or brother. Personally, to me this child sounds like he has attachment disorder, which is serious and due to lack of good caregiving and lots of chaos as an infant and young toddler. It is very hard to help unattached children. The sexual stuff is way out of the realm of ADHD. And don't fool yourself that this is all ex's fault. Why didn't your boyfriend protect his children from this alcoholic woman? Why do they live with her and why didn't he get custody? Lots of ??? here, but I'd do what I could to protect your child-to-be from this situation. [/QUOTE]
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