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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 567505" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>Appleseed you likely would be surprised by how many unmarried and fairly newly married women come to this site looking for "answers" on how to solve the problem. The ones who are still in the "honeymoon stage" often leave after posting once or twice because they want so much to "solve the problem". The problems you are describing you can not solve. It doesn't matter how many degrees you have, how much experience you have with children, OR how much you wish you could make it all better. It is NOT going to get better. in my humble opinion all you can do is minimize the damage that is likely to come to you and your new child. I truly am sorry. You need to make notes on this child's behavior (yes, even if it is second hand) and date any known instances of abnormality. You need to be sure if it comes to Court you have more than idle fears and accusations.</p><p></p><p>I have not raised a child like you describe. I have been associated with the district Court system and been the Guardian Ad Litem for a number of children similar to the boy you describe. Counseling does not solve their problems. The problems are embedded in their being and without exaggeration I have cried many times as I had to make recommendations to the Court that they not be in a home or have access to other children.</p><p></p><p>Please accept my hugs and heartfelt sorrow that you are facing this issue. DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 567505, member: 35"] Appleseed you likely would be surprised by how many unmarried and fairly newly married women come to this site looking for "answers" on how to solve the problem. The ones who are still in the "honeymoon stage" often leave after posting once or twice because they want so much to "solve the problem". The problems you are describing you can not solve. It doesn't matter how many degrees you have, how much experience you have with children, OR how much you wish you could make it all better. It is NOT going to get better. in my humble opinion all you can do is minimize the damage that is likely to come to you and your new child. I truly am sorry. You need to make notes on this child's behavior (yes, even if it is second hand) and date any known instances of abnormality. You need to be sure if it comes to Court you have more than idle fears and accusations. I have not raised a child like you describe. I have been associated with the district Court system and been the Guardian Ad Litem for a number of children similar to the boy you describe. Counseling does not solve their problems. The problems are embedded in their being and without exaggeration I have cried many times as I had to make recommendations to the Court that they not be in a home or have access to other children. Please accept my hugs and heartfelt sorrow that you are facing this issue. DDD [/QUOTE]
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