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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 567512" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Well, I think your boyfriend AND his alcoholic wife will have to deal with son because the child can only keep other kids that he abuses and threatens silent for so long. The child we adopted terrorized all children he abused into keeping quiet by threatening to kill their parents and them if they told on him. In hindsight, we are appalled to see that he tended to gravitate towards vulnerable children, such as one boy with a limited ability to communicate who also had seizures. I'll bet he abused him too. There are too many other instances to list in hindsight, but one day he will be caught and CPS will get involved and your dear boyfriend won't have a choice but to deal with this son or he may lose his son against his will or have CPS threaten to remove his other children if he doesn't let them put him in a residential home. </p><p></p><p>In the meantime, get soul custody of your baby. This man is in so much denial and it could be a few years before this charming but lethal kid messes up bad enough to be turned in. But one thing for sure...it will happen. He isn't going to change. He can't change. And you don't need to subject your children to his problem, including the child you share with this man. I would tell your lawyer all about this boy when you ask for soul custody. Make sure he presents it to the judge. Joint custody with this clueless man would be horrible...he can pretty much veto out any decisions you make it you have joint.</p><p></p><p>Wishing you well! You have the power to keep your children safe <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 567512, member: 1550"] Well, I think your boyfriend AND his alcoholic wife will have to deal with son because the child can only keep other kids that he abuses and threatens silent for so long. The child we adopted terrorized all children he abused into keeping quiet by threatening to kill their parents and them if they told on him. In hindsight, we are appalled to see that he tended to gravitate towards vulnerable children, such as one boy with a limited ability to communicate who also had seizures. I'll bet he abused him too. There are too many other instances to list in hindsight, but one day he will be caught and CPS will get involved and your dear boyfriend won't have a choice but to deal with this son or he may lose his son against his will or have CPS threaten to remove his other children if he doesn't let them put him in a residential home. In the meantime, get soul custody of your baby. This man is in so much denial and it could be a few years before this charming but lethal kid messes up bad enough to be turned in. But one thing for sure...it will happen. He isn't going to change. He can't change. And you don't need to subject your children to his problem, including the child you share with this man. I would tell your lawyer all about this boy when you ask for soul custody. Make sure he presents it to the judge. Joint custody with this clueless man would be horrible...he can pretty much veto out any decisions you make it you have joint. Wishing you well! You have the power to keep your children safe :) [/QUOTE]
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