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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 246309" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>Hi</p><p> </p><p>First I am so sorry for what happened to her. That is a traumatic thing to happen to a child that age, and let me just say being a survivor myself you should be quite proud of yourself for taking all these steps to help her and being open about the occurance to help her. YOu would be amazed alot of parents embarrass over things such as this.</p><p> </p><p>I'm going to throw some sensitive questions out there yet their coming to mind. The incident you have to think of where it occured, what time of year it occured, also were there any strong smells wherever it did occur, also does she see this person with whom did it to her even in the neighborhood at all in passing, do her friends know.</p><p> </p><p>Someone with whom is abused is not unmanagable, she will come around it's just going to take alot of time and patience yet dont' lose hope. PPl can be triggered by smells, time of year, all the things i listed. Also I think a group session for someone her age with kids her age if there is indeed one would be best and also as the others said someone who is trained in this area particularly.</p><p> </p><p>So, why is she on the abilify I wanted to ask? Is it due to her behaviors since this occured? Is she able to attend regular mainstream school?</p><p> </p><p>There are several books that are great on this topic I have to look them up to remember who the authors are yet it speaks in detail on how to get a child through this sort of thing. Also she was not diagnosed with ptsd?? </p><p> </p><p>Sorry I rambled yet hang in there, your doing a great job. Just be as patient as you possibly can and spend one on one time with her if you can and prompt her to talk about the upsetting event. She's got it all in there and she's gotta get it out. Her seperating is also really normal i'm sure you know. Her minds' protecting her because it's too overwhelming to process.</p><p> </p><p>sending you alot of hugs. you can pm me for the names of the books if you want</p><p> </p><p>((((Hugs to you and her)))))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 246309, member: 4514"] Hi First I am so sorry for what happened to her. That is a traumatic thing to happen to a child that age, and let me just say being a survivor myself you should be quite proud of yourself for taking all these steps to help her and being open about the occurance to help her. YOu would be amazed alot of parents embarrass over things such as this. I'm going to throw some sensitive questions out there yet their coming to mind. The incident you have to think of where it occured, what time of year it occured, also were there any strong smells wherever it did occur, also does she see this person with whom did it to her even in the neighborhood at all in passing, do her friends know. Someone with whom is abused is not unmanagable, she will come around it's just going to take alot of time and patience yet dont' lose hope. PPl can be triggered by smells, time of year, all the things i listed. Also I think a group session for someone her age with kids her age if there is indeed one would be best and also as the others said someone who is trained in this area particularly. So, why is she on the abilify I wanted to ask? Is it due to her behaviors since this occured? Is she able to attend regular mainstream school? There are several books that are great on this topic I have to look them up to remember who the authors are yet it speaks in detail on how to get a child through this sort of thing. Also she was not diagnosed with ptsd?? Sorry I rambled yet hang in there, your doing a great job. Just be as patient as you possibly can and spend one on one time with her if you can and prompt her to talk about the upsetting event. She's got it all in there and she's gotta get it out. Her seperating is also really normal i'm sure you know. Her minds' protecting her because it's too overwhelming to process. sending you alot of hugs. you can pm me for the names of the books if you want ((((Hugs to you and her))))) [/QUOTE]
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