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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 200765" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>Adrianne asks some very good questions about your living situation. Is it at all possible to move away from your home but stay in her schooling area? Or, do you think it might help to move her entirely away from the daily input of reminders?</p><p></p><p>I hope that you will both work in therapy on moving on from this period in your lives. I'm wondering if she doesn't have a lot of guilt about the breakup of the family that she isn't comfortable talking to you about. Of course it's not her fault, but I'm sure she feels badly that it happened to her, and makes a connection from what happened to her to what the end result is. </p><p></p><p>Somehow both she and you need to feel ok about moving on to tomorrow. Yesterday <em>did</em> happen and it <em>was</em> awful. I don't know that two years is enough to get past it, because it is always there <em>in the past</em>. Hope is in tomorrow. You need to find a way to leave regret in the past.</p><p></p><p>{{{{{{{{{{{{{Big Hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 200765, member: 99"] Adrianne asks some very good questions about your living situation. Is it at all possible to move away from your home but stay in her schooling area? Or, do you think it might help to move her entirely away from the daily input of reminders? I hope that you will both work in therapy on moving on from this period in your lives. I'm wondering if she doesn't have a lot of guilt about the breakup of the family that she isn't comfortable talking to you about. Of course it's not her fault, but I'm sure she feels badly that it happened to her, and makes a connection from what happened to her to what the end result is. Somehow both she and you need to feel ok about moving on to tomorrow. Yesterday [i]did[/i] happen and it [i]was[/i] awful. I don't know that two years is enough to get past it, because it is always there [i]in the past[/i]. Hope is in tomorrow. You need to find a way to leave regret in the past. {{{{{{{{{{{{{Big Hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}} [/QUOTE]
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