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<blockquote data-quote="everywoman" data-source="post: 200777" data-attributes="member: 1436"><p>It took several years of therapy and intense "love" to pull my daughter through. She, luckily, is a lot like you and I and is able to maintain on the outside. Most people don't know the daily "he**" she lived inside of herself. Unfortunately or maybe fortunately you daughter's pain is visible. You can see when she is hurting. People like me, you, and my daughter keep it inside and suffer in silence. I think that often as victims of sexual abuse they feel so much guilt and shame. The victim should be encouraged to recognize the abuse for what it was---abuse. They should be able to speak about what happened to them without judgment or shame. There is some good literature and information put out by Darkness to Light. <a href="http://www.darkness2light.org/AboutUs/about_us.asp" target="_blank"> See if there is an organization in your area. </a></p><p><a href="http://www.darkness2light.org/AboutUs/about_us.asp" target="_blank"></a></p><p><a href="http://www.darkness2light.org/AboutUs/about_us.asp" target="_blank">It takes time. But you will recover as a family. You will never be what you could have been, but you will be the family you can be now.</a></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="everywoman, post: 200777, member: 1436"] It took several years of therapy and intense "love" to pull my daughter through. She, luckily, is a lot like you and I and is able to maintain on the outside. Most people don't know the daily "he**" she lived inside of herself. Unfortunately or maybe fortunately you daughter's pain is visible. You can see when she is hurting. People like me, you, and my daughter keep it inside and suffer in silence. I think that often as victims of sexual abuse they feel so much guilt and shame. The victim should be encouraged to recognize the abuse for what it was---abuse. They should be able to speak about what happened to them without judgment or shame. There is some good literature and information put out by Darkness to Light. [URL="http://www.darkness2light.org/AboutUs/about_us.asp"] See if there is an organization in your area. It takes time. But you will recover as a family. You will never be what you could have been, but you will be the family you can be now.[/URL] [/QUOTE]
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