Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
General Parenting
relinquishment woes
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 200908" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Change, we did move. Part of that was because of memories and part was because we felt that when this sick child grew up, maybe he'd try to look us up. We have an unlisted phone number. Getting into therapy with the kids was really helpful. We found somebody who specialized in kids who'd been sexually abused. It got better through the years. It is now six years later and our family is bad to "normal" (whatever that is). It is normal, in the context of a child who was assaulted, for her to be distracted and moody. For some reasons, these kids tend to think they caused their attack, and that is one of the things therapy is so good at. I do recommend finding somebody who understands sexual assault victims. You may also want to find a place that deals with Domestic Abuse. Usually they have group therapy so people can heal together...and they have groups for kids...and often they don't care if there was abuse from just a sibling. Abuse is abuse. I worked at a center for domestic abuse and they were great at helping both the adults and kids move on. (((Hugs and prayers to both of you)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 200908, member: 1550"] Change, we did move. Part of that was because of memories and part was because we felt that when this sick child grew up, maybe he'd try to look us up. We have an unlisted phone number. Getting into therapy with the kids was really helpful. We found somebody who specialized in kids who'd been sexually abused. It got better through the years. It is now six years later and our family is bad to "normal" (whatever that is). It is normal, in the context of a child who was assaulted, for her to be distracted and moody. For some reasons, these kids tend to think they caused their attack, and that is one of the things therapy is so good at. I do recommend finding somebody who understands sexual assault victims. You may also want to find a place that deals with Domestic Abuse. Usually they have group therapy so people can heal together...and they have groups for kids...and often they don't care if there was abuse from just a sibling. Abuse is abuse. I worked at a center for domestic abuse and they were great at helping both the adults and kids move on. (((Hugs and prayers to both of you))) [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
General Parenting
relinquishment woes
Top