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Relocated to give my daughter a better opportunity, think I'm making everything worse
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 434464" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>This is a good time to find the legal aid office too. If they won't/can't help for some reason, find a nearby law school and call professors to ask if they or a student group could help you with either the eviction or the housing and financial crisis. they may be able to help speed up the process for food benefits, low income housing, medicare for both of you, etc.... I do not know how much you earn, but every state must insure children who are not otherwise insured/insurable. Applying is usually easy and usually costs are covered 100%. The income limits for this are higher than for other things. Also check out the school lunch program for the summer. Here they open one school in June and July and serve free lunch to anyone under 18. It is about $4 for anyone over 18 here. Some districts even provide buses to help you get there. Many schools also have programs where they send a special colored backpack home with children who do not get food at home over the weekends or school breaks. The school secretary or principal or the guidance office or nutritionist/kitchen manager can help with this. </p><p></p><p>Even if you do NOT get these things right away, you CAN keep from being kicked out. She will have to file a formal complaint following the steps in thsi article (specific for NC): <a href="http://www.ehow.com/how-does_4969664_north-carolina-eviction-process_.html" target="_blank">http://www.ehow.com/how-does_4969664_north-carolina-eviction-process_.html</a></p><p></p><p>Should she put your things out, or lock you out, or take your things, or try to intimidate you or if she threatens you or damages your things or goes totally psycho and tries to hurt you, then YOU call the cops. She cannot just toss you out for not having the rent right now, no matter what the problems are. So do what you need to do, ignore her as much as you can, and keep your head up high! Yes, you have very little now, but you sacrificed your home, your support system there, an area you know, etc... to move to this place because it is what your daughter needs to grow and learn and blossom into a young woman. So don't let anyone tell you that you are less. You are so much more than s many people out there because you have truly given up almost everything material to get the help and supports that are crucial to your daughter's future. </p><p></p><p>by the way, if she damages anything of yours, make SURE you get photos if possible and call the police. </p><p></p><p>((((((((((hugs))))))))))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 434464, member: 1233"] This is a good time to find the legal aid office too. If they won't/can't help for some reason, find a nearby law school and call professors to ask if they or a student group could help you with either the eviction or the housing and financial crisis. they may be able to help speed up the process for food benefits, low income housing, medicare for both of you, etc.... I do not know how much you earn, but every state must insure children who are not otherwise insured/insurable. Applying is usually easy and usually costs are covered 100%. The income limits for this are higher than for other things. Also check out the school lunch program for the summer. Here they open one school in June and July and serve free lunch to anyone under 18. It is about $4 for anyone over 18 here. Some districts even provide buses to help you get there. Many schools also have programs where they send a special colored backpack home with children who do not get food at home over the weekends or school breaks. The school secretary or principal or the guidance office or nutritionist/kitchen manager can help with this. Even if you do NOT get these things right away, you CAN keep from being kicked out. She will have to file a formal complaint following the steps in thsi article (specific for NC): [url]http://www.ehow.com/how-does_4969664_north-carolina-eviction-process_.html[/url] Should she put your things out, or lock you out, or take your things, or try to intimidate you or if she threatens you or damages your things or goes totally psycho and tries to hurt you, then YOU call the cops. She cannot just toss you out for not having the rent right now, no matter what the problems are. So do what you need to do, ignore her as much as you can, and keep your head up high! Yes, you have very little now, but you sacrificed your home, your support system there, an area you know, etc... to move to this place because it is what your daughter needs to grow and learn and blossom into a young woman. So don't let anyone tell you that you are less. You are so much more than s many people out there because you have truly given up almost everything material to get the help and supports that are crucial to your daughter's future. by the way, if she damages anything of yours, make SURE you get photos if possible and call the police. ((((((((((hugs)))))))))) [/QUOTE]
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