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<blockquote data-quote="pigless in VA" data-source="post: 680931" data-attributes="member: 11832"><p>ksm, I just had an idea. Please don't throw tomatoes at your computer and feel free to reject this idea. You will not hurt my feelings one iota. I like to toss out all ideas because once in a great while, the out of the box ideas are the winners.</p><p></p><p>What if . . . you and husband accept the inappropriate boyfriend. (I personally agree that he's a loser.) What I am thinking is that IF you agree that she can see the boyfriend with supervision and limitations, would she then be willing to continue living with you instead of biomom? She is stuck on him, because he is taboo. If he's not taboo anymore, maybe the relationship will be short-lived. And if she is still living with you, you can still monitor things like birth control, grades, and other potential issues for her. She could still learn important life lessons from you. Maybe allowing her this one true love (which we all know is more than likely not) will allow you some measure of control in other areas. Maybe it's a worthwhile concession if you gain elsewhere.</p><p></p><p>Ducking the tomatoes now. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/bag.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":bag:" title="bag :bag:" data-shortname=":bag:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="pigless in VA, post: 680931, member: 11832"] ksm, I just had an idea. Please don't throw tomatoes at your computer and feel free to reject this idea. You will not hurt my feelings one iota. I like to toss out all ideas because once in a great while, the out of the box ideas are the winners. What if . . . you and husband accept the inappropriate boyfriend. (I personally agree that he's a loser.) What I am thinking is that IF you agree that she can see the boyfriend with supervision and limitations, would she then be willing to continue living with you instead of biomom? She is stuck on him, because he is taboo. If he's not taboo anymore, maybe the relationship will be short-lived. And if she is still living with you, you can still monitor things like birth control, grades, and other potential issues for her. She could still learn important life lessons from you. Maybe allowing her this one true love (which we all know is more than likely not) will allow you some measure of control in other areas. Maybe it's a worthwhile concession if you gain elsewhere. Ducking the tomatoes now. :bag: [/QUOTE]
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