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Resentment toward son and him having a baby on the way
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<blockquote data-quote="PennyFromTheBlock" data-source="post: 682017" data-attributes="member: 18271"><p>I don't know how well I'm doing- but I know I'm trying. I've cried and spun myself up more times than I can count because my grandson is my heart. </p><p></p><p>Thankfully, my son is pretty set in never being with her again- but I have to tell you- just yesterday when I spoke with him as he cried and cried because he hates hates hates not seeing his baby everyday- this is the only thing that would ever drive him back over there. But again, he's fairly adamant about never ever living like that ever again.</p><p></p><p>I'll do anything within reason for my grandson. One thing I will not do- and haven't done so far- is go into debt behind this mess. I'm not going to go borrow the $3000 it will take my son to get a private atty- I lead him in directions to get help in other ways.</p><p></p><p>Unfortunately, until she messes up there may be very little we can do. I can say that I do worry a LOT about the safety and well being of this baby. His mother is likely on the hunt for another boyfriend right now- because she has no idea how to woman up and get stable within herself first. My son's fear is that she'll get a crazy like her and somehow the baby will end up hurt. (this is the over analyzing and whipping ones self into a frenzy)- my son has already said (and I believe him) that if something were to happen to his son he WILL end up on death row. He wasn't joking. </p><p></p><p>The hardest part of it all is the innocence of the baby. They didn't ask to be born, and certainly not to two parents like THIS.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="PennyFromTheBlock, post: 682017, member: 18271"] I don't know how well I'm doing- but I know I'm trying. I've cried and spun myself up more times than I can count because my grandson is my heart. Thankfully, my son is pretty set in never being with her again- but I have to tell you- just yesterday when I spoke with him as he cried and cried because he hates hates hates not seeing his baby everyday- this is the only thing that would ever drive him back over there. But again, he's fairly adamant about never ever living like that ever again. I'll do anything within reason for my grandson. One thing I will not do- and haven't done so far- is go into debt behind this mess. I'm not going to go borrow the $3000 it will take my son to get a private atty- I lead him in directions to get help in other ways. Unfortunately, until she messes up there may be very little we can do. I can say that I do worry a LOT about the safety and well being of this baby. His mother is likely on the hunt for another boyfriend right now- because she has no idea how to woman up and get stable within herself first. My son's fear is that she'll get a crazy like her and somehow the baby will end up hurt. (this is the over analyzing and whipping ones self into a frenzy)- my son has already said (and I believe him) that if something were to happen to his son he WILL end up on death row. He wasn't joking. The hardest part of it all is the innocence of the baby. They didn't ask to be born, and certainly not to two parents like THIS. [/QUOTE]
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