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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 706493" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Sadly, neglect is now thought to cause more severe attachment disorders than abuse. There is little that we know that can fix attachment disorders. Please keep your animals safe by keeping them FAR away from this girl. PLEASE get her into some sort of placement away from your animals. They give their all to you, support you and love you. Your granddau doesn't understand love, likely cannot, and will only continue to hurt the animals. You have all the proof you need. You didn't do it, and no one else in your home did either. You know, deep down, that she did it. That she is the only one who COULD have done it because she is the only one who is prone to hurt animals when upset or irritated. </p><p></p><p>I don't think there is really a way to fix what is wrong with her. I wish I could give you hope, but she has to want to fix what is wrong and I doubt she sees anything wrong with hurting them. I doubt she would see anything wrong with hurting a child either. Please never leave her alone with a child or an elderly or vulnerable adult. If she got upset or irritated wtih them, she would likely treat them the way she does your animals. Some people are just too damaged to be fixed, either because the damage is too bad or because they don't see anything wrong with the way they are. Do NOT let her babysit anyone, ever. </p><p></p><p>Please find another person to be around your animals, and cameras or something to make sure she is NEVER near your animals again. You owe these animals your livelihood, and their safety. </p><p></p><p>As for her being out in the cold, she is 16 and smart enough to find a way to get out of the cold. She will go to a store or a friend's house. If she is out after dark or curfew, report her as a runaway to the police. Other than that, there really isn't much you can do. Surely she is smart enough to come in out of the cold. Most people are by 16.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 706493, member: 1233"] Sadly, neglect is now thought to cause more severe attachment disorders than abuse. There is little that we know that can fix attachment disorders. Please keep your animals safe by keeping them FAR away from this girl. PLEASE get her into some sort of placement away from your animals. They give their all to you, support you and love you. Your granddau doesn't understand love, likely cannot, and will only continue to hurt the animals. You have all the proof you need. You didn't do it, and no one else in your home did either. You know, deep down, that she did it. That she is the only one who COULD have done it because she is the only one who is prone to hurt animals when upset or irritated. I don't think there is really a way to fix what is wrong with her. I wish I could give you hope, but she has to want to fix what is wrong and I doubt she sees anything wrong with hurting them. I doubt she would see anything wrong with hurting a child either. Please never leave her alone with a child or an elderly or vulnerable adult. If she got upset or irritated wtih them, she would likely treat them the way she does your animals. Some people are just too damaged to be fixed, either because the damage is too bad or because they don't see anything wrong with the way they are. Do NOT let her babysit anyone, ever. Please find another person to be around your animals, and cameras or something to make sure she is NEVER near your animals again. You owe these animals your livelihood, and their safety. As for her being out in the cold, she is 16 and smart enough to find a way to get out of the cold. She will go to a store or a friend's house. If she is out after dark or curfew, report her as a runaway to the police. Other than that, there really isn't much you can do. Surely she is smart enough to come in out of the cold. Most people are by 16. [/QUOTE]
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