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Rough Morming With difficult child
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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 570063" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>yes, getting to the message under the message is so hard. I often tell people to listen to what Q is really saying, not his words. Often the message is at least on the surface a feeling message like, I'm scared, I'm frustrated, I'm worried, I'm angry etc. that alone (not that I can label it or he will just deny it and get more into that mode) at least helps me with my patience and my reaction.</p><p></p><p>Sometimes after he has been in bed for a short time, he will be able to talk. he often initiates it. Then I start to get clues as to what is really going on in that head. </p><p></p><p>I rarely find out in the heat of a moment. soooooo hard.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 570063, member: 12886"] yes, getting to the message under the message is so hard. I often tell people to listen to what Q is really saying, not his words. Often the message is at least on the surface a feeling message like, I'm scared, I'm frustrated, I'm worried, I'm angry etc. that alone (not that I can label it or he will just deny it and get more into that mode) at least helps me with my patience and my reaction. Sometimes after he has been in bed for a short time, he will be able to talk. he often initiates it. Then I start to get clues as to what is really going on in that head. I rarely find out in the heat of a moment. soooooo hard. [/QUOTE]
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