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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 752373" data-attributes="member: 4152"><p>I too think you handled it well. She might not be open to it...but if there is any chance she is...you might suggest positive affirmations. Like have her repeat to herself “I can do this!” “I can clean fast and well too!” “I like cleaning and it works out well for me!” “I will do this and then I can use the car!”</p><p></p><p>Weird question: why do all our kids loathe cleaning?</p><p></p><p>When ours lived at home her bedroom st Times was scary.</p><p></p><p>If I hired a housekeeper, more than 50 percent of her cleaning time for the entire home was spent in the one bedroom. Ugh</p><p></p><p>Our adult child rarely cleans , although I think she does a few things like vacuums now and then. She also tends to clean a little if we are coming over or a good friend. But generally speaking...no. Of particular concern are her sheets. She has cats. She has had odd rashes, eye infections and scalp issues. I don’t think she washes her sheets regularly. I don't know. It’s so sad.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 752373, member: 4152"] I too think you handled it well. She might not be open to it...but if there is any chance she is...you might suggest positive affirmations. Like have her repeat to herself “I can do this!” “I can clean fast and well too!” “I like cleaning and it works out well for me!” “I will do this and then I can use the car!” Weird question: why do all our kids loathe cleaning? When ours lived at home her bedroom st Times was scary. If I hired a housekeeper, more than 50 percent of her cleaning time for the entire home was spent in the one bedroom. Ugh Our adult child rarely cleans , although I think she does a few things like vacuums now and then. She also tends to clean a little if we are coming over or a good friend. But generally speaking...no. Of particular concern are her sheets. She has cats. She has had odd rashes, eye infections and scalp issues. I don’t think she washes her sheets regularly. I don't know. It’s so sad. [/QUOTE]
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