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<blockquote data-quote="nvts" data-source="post: 105186" data-attributes="member: 3814"><p>Instead of smacking your face can I send you a hug?</p><p></p><p>OMG, Kitty's human! Listen kiddo, what you're going through is normal. Everyone on this earth that has any sense goes through the "what if's"! </p><p></p><p>What if I stayed with him?</p><p>What if I hadn't quit smoking?</p><p>What if I hadn't gained the weight when I quit smoking?</p><p></p><p>Wouldn't that have been the better decision? Let's see: Chronic Obstructive Pulmonary Disease (COPD), inhalers, thinner because you kept smoking - wouldn't you have been a lovely <u><strong>corpse</strong></u>!</p><p></p><p>Kitty, you gained weight. Ok. Right now what can you do about it? Exercise: not likely. Munch on healthier stuff?: wouldn't we all. The bottom line is you're a tremendously beautiful person who has so much to give. You're dealing with such an incredible amount of stress, memories, "shoulda-coulda-woulda's", naturally you're depressed.</p><p></p><p>As far as your ex. Step back: what would REALLY happened if you'd stayed with him? Can you look in a mirror and truly tell yourself that you and Tink would have been better off? Not likely.</p><p></p><p>At this time many, many people mourn what should have been (not what "could" have been)! We all deserve to have an ideal. Most of us don't get that. Reality is based on what "is". </p><p></p><p>Stop skipping stuff because you got heavier. Hop on a plus size website, go to "sale" or "clearance" stuff and pick yourself up an outfit. </p><p></p><p>Take pride in the fact that you have done what so many of us want to do but keep making excuses (I still smoke). So you gained some weight, but again, you're alive!</p><p></p><p>WE LOVE YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE & NOT HOW YOU LOOK. Believe you're Orlando Bloom's (or whomever you choose) ideal woman and walk tall and with pride!</p><p></p><p>I'll bug you some more later just to make sure that you listened!</p><p></p><p>Beth</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="nvts, post: 105186, member: 3814"] Instead of smacking your face can I send you a hug? OMG, Kitty's human! Listen kiddo, what you're going through is normal. Everyone on this earth that has any sense goes through the "what if's"! What if I stayed with him? What if I hadn't quit smoking? What if I hadn't gained the weight when I quit smoking? Wouldn't that have been the better decision? Let's see: Chronic Obstructive Pulmonary Disease (COPD), inhalers, thinner because you kept smoking - wouldn't you have been a lovely [U][B]corpse[/B][/U]! Kitty, you gained weight. Ok. Right now what can you do about it? Exercise: not likely. Munch on healthier stuff?: wouldn't we all. The bottom line is you're a tremendously beautiful person who has so much to give. You're dealing with such an incredible amount of stress, memories, "shoulda-coulda-woulda's", naturally you're depressed. As far as your ex. Step back: what would REALLY happened if you'd stayed with him? Can you look in a mirror and truly tell yourself that you and Tink would have been better off? Not likely. At this time many, many people mourn what should have been (not what "could" have been)! We all deserve to have an ideal. Most of us don't get that. Reality is based on what "is". Stop skipping stuff because you got heavier. Hop on a plus size website, go to "sale" or "clearance" stuff and pick yourself up an outfit. Take pride in the fact that you have done what so many of us want to do but keep making excuses (I still smoke). So you gained some weight, but again, you're alive! WE LOVE YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE & NOT HOW YOU LOOK. Believe you're Orlando Bloom's (or whomever you choose) ideal woman and walk tall and with pride! I'll bug you some more later just to make sure that you listened! Beth [/QUOTE]
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