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<blockquote data-quote="'Chelle" data-source="post: 105205" data-attributes="member: 1161"><p>I'm sorry you're feeling so blue. I don't think you need a slap, just some hugs and scratches behind the kitty ears. When I do that to my kitties I know I feel better, so I hope it makes them better too. {{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}</p><p></p><p>You have lots of reasons to feel blue, just don't let it overwhelm you. You found out some things about the ex that you'd rather not know, it happens. And no matter what anyone thinks, when you care for someone, it doesn't just go away even when things go wrong and you're no longer together. There were some good things that made you care in the first place, and those are the things you mourn losing, and will always be with you. </p><p></p><p>Yes, go to a meeting. You need to get out and get back to doing the things for you. Do something special just for you, and don't feel any guilt doing it, because we all need that special feeling once in a while. I would LOVE a massage right about now LOL.</p><p></p><p>And the weight issue, well you can let it keep you from things, or you can realize that extra weight is not who or what you are. You are a beautiful, strong, supportive, funny, bright woman, and it's a shame to hide that inside because you feel that weight is all anyone else will see. It's not, especially not to anyone who cares about you and wants to see you. Speaking from experience here, I am VERY overweight. I went to my 25 year HS reunion, and could have won the award for the person who gained the most weight if they had one. But I'm glad I went, I had fun, had great conversations with people that I hadn't even been friends with in HS, and if anyone cared that I was so heavy I didn't give a hoot. I've come to realize that I'm a good person, big or not, and anyone with a problem with my weight it's their problem not mine. You can always lose weight if you want FOR YOU, but please don't waste your life worrying about what other people think or let a number on a scale define who you are or what you do. Fat or thin, you're a wonderfully special person, I can tell from your posts here. </p><p></p><p>OH, and I tell my kids smoking is stinky like dog poo. You don't want to start that again do you?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="'Chelle, post: 105205, member: 1161"] I'm sorry you're feeling so blue. I don't think you need a slap, just some hugs and scratches behind the kitty ears. When I do that to my kitties I know I feel better, so I hope it makes them better too. {{{{{{HUGS}}}}}} You have lots of reasons to feel blue, just don't let it overwhelm you. You found out some things about the ex that you'd rather not know, it happens. And no matter what anyone thinks, when you care for someone, it doesn't just go away even when things go wrong and you're no longer together. There were some good things that made you care in the first place, and those are the things you mourn losing, and will always be with you. Yes, go to a meeting. You need to get out and get back to doing the things for you. Do something special just for you, and don't feel any guilt doing it, because we all need that special feeling once in a while. I would LOVE a massage right about now LOL. And the weight issue, well you can let it keep you from things, or you can realize that extra weight is not who or what you are. You are a beautiful, strong, supportive, funny, bright woman, and it's a shame to hide that inside because you feel that weight is all anyone else will see. It's not, especially not to anyone who cares about you and wants to see you. Speaking from experience here, I am VERY overweight. I went to my 25 year HS reunion, and could have won the award for the person who gained the most weight if they had one. But I'm glad I went, I had fun, had great conversations with people that I hadn't even been friends with in HS, and if anyone cared that I was so heavy I didn't give a hoot. I've come to realize that I'm a good person, big or not, and anyone with a problem with my weight it's their problem not mine. You can always lose weight if you want FOR YOU, but please don't waste your life worrying about what other people think or let a number on a scale define who you are or what you do. Fat or thin, you're a wonderfully special person, I can tell from your posts here. OH, and I tell my kids smoking is stinky like dog poo. You don't want to start that again do you? [/QUOTE]
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