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<blockquote data-quote="JaneBetty" data-source="post: 700149" data-attributes="member: 20814"><p>Well, yesterday our daughter sent a msg thru a mutual family friend that she was trying to make arrangements with the police dept to have an escort come with her to pick up some of her things this morning (a restraining order is in effect, so she must be accompanied). She made certain to instruct our friend that we (her parents) were to stay out of her room, and she would prefer we were not in the house while she got her things, LOL! </p><p></p><p>We have already packed and labeled all her things and they are sitting in the basement, and I asked our friend to relay this message to our daughter so there are no surprises.</p><p></p><p>Our mutual friend asked her if she was able to take the kitty that she left as well. This must have triggered something in her (she was forced out of our house almost a month ago due to my confronting her over bringing in two more stray kittens into the house that we were able to give back to the original owner, but we still had one kitty left in the house), because the next thing we knew, she had backed up our driveway in defiance of the restraining order. I am upset she did this, we didn't call the police since she left immediately after getting the kitty, and nothing happened after she left, but she ignored the boundary.</p><p></p><p>So, if she somehow gets an officer to escort her here to pick up her things today, I am wondering what personal documents should go with her. She has a passport, as well as a few savings bonds that her grandparents and we bought when she was a child, and bank statements and health records that I gathered to apply for social security disability.</p><p></p><p>Do we just pack it all in a box and send it away?</p><p></p><p>PS, after reading accounts about adult children reading parents' posts on this site, I have changed my avatar photo again out of excessive caution.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JaneBetty, post: 700149, member: 20814"] Well, yesterday our daughter sent a msg thru a mutual family friend that she was trying to make arrangements with the police dept to have an escort come with her to pick up some of her things this morning (a restraining order is in effect, so she must be accompanied). She made certain to instruct our friend that we (her parents) were to stay out of her room, and she would prefer we were not in the house while she got her things, LOL! We have already packed and labeled all her things and they are sitting in the basement, and I asked our friend to relay this message to our daughter so there are no surprises. Our mutual friend asked her if she was able to take the kitty that she left as well. This must have triggered something in her (she was forced out of our house almost a month ago due to my confronting her over bringing in two more stray kittens into the house that we were able to give back to the original owner, but we still had one kitty left in the house), because the next thing we knew, she had backed up our driveway in defiance of the restraining order. I am upset she did this, we didn't call the police since she left immediately after getting the kitty, and nothing happened after she left, but she ignored the boundary. So, if she somehow gets an officer to escort her here to pick up her things today, I am wondering what personal documents should go with her. She has a passport, as well as a few savings bonds that her grandparents and we bought when she was a child, and bank statements and health records that I gathered to apply for social security disability. Do we just pack it all in a box and send it away? PS, after reading accounts about adult children reading parents' posts on this site, I have changed my avatar photo again out of excessive caution. [/QUOTE]
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