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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 406503" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>NOOOOOOO NOT YOU!!!!!!!!! GO AWAY!!!!!!!!!!! YOU DO NOT BELONG HERE!!!!!! GO, NOW - AND TAKE YOUR FANCY TRASH RECEPTACLE! </p><p> </p><p>Yeah......well, if it were all only that simple huh kiddo? If it were? I'd have gotten one of those thingamabobs too. The upside to all this is? At least THIS time you knew WHERE to come, knew WHAT to ask for, and knew HOW quickly you needed to do it, and knew WHO to ask and didn't wait for the WHEN - Congratulations for taking care of YOU FIRST. That ......THAT should be the first rule of detachment, the first rule of living with an addict, the first rule for ourselves in nearly everything. Sounds selfish, but it isn't. </p><p> </p><p>My heart? Well it too breaks right along with yours for your son. No one wants this - no one wakes up or grows up and says "THIS is what I want to be when I grow up." But this time? THIS time he had a choice and you know HE made the choice - there's not guessing if the choice may have been made for him. THAT'S the part that inhales voilently. That's the part the makes my blood boil with every addict. That's the part that makes nearly everyone else walk away from them - when only certain people hang out continually and go down the tubes with them. </p><p> </p><p>That's the saddest part of it all for me.....always had been.....always will be. He had a choice, he has a choice every day. He made it - </p><p> </p><p>I'm so sorry for your pain - </p><p> </p><p>hugs and love </p><p>Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 406503, member: 4964"] NOOOOOOO NOT YOU!!!!!!!!! GO AWAY!!!!!!!!!!! YOU DO NOT BELONG HERE!!!!!! GO, NOW - AND TAKE YOUR FANCY TRASH RECEPTACLE! Yeah......well, if it were all only that simple huh kiddo? If it were? I'd have gotten one of those thingamabobs too. The upside to all this is? At least THIS time you knew WHERE to come, knew WHAT to ask for, and knew HOW quickly you needed to do it, and knew WHO to ask and didn't wait for the WHEN - Congratulations for taking care of YOU FIRST. That ......THAT should be the first rule of detachment, the first rule of living with an addict, the first rule for ourselves in nearly everything. Sounds selfish, but it isn't. My heart? Well it too breaks right along with yours for your son. No one wants this - no one wakes up or grows up and says "THIS is what I want to be when I grow up." But this time? THIS time he had a choice and you know HE made the choice - there's not guessing if the choice may have been made for him. THAT'S the part that inhales voilently. That's the part the makes my blood boil with every addict. That's the part that makes nearly everyone else walk away from them - when only certain people hang out continually and go down the tubes with them. That's the saddest part of it all for me.....always had been.....always will be. He had a choice, he has a choice every day. He made it - I'm so sorry for your pain - hugs and love Star [/QUOTE]
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