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<blockquote data-quote="KFld" data-source="post: 406771" data-attributes="member: 2442"><p>He called me last night, from work which is a good thing, and was really stressed out because his girlfriend can go stay with her mother and he can't. He had told his landlord he was going to be out of his apartment yesterday but his plan was to get up this morning, pack everything in his car and go to work, but he had no idea where he is going to sleep until Wednesday. He gets paid on Tuesday and plans on moving into a long term weekly rate hotel on Wednesday. He just called me again stressed about where he's going to sleep and I know he was hoping I would say I'll pay for his hotel until Wednesday. Instead I told him to do something, which I know isn't right, but!!!! He hasn't been served an official eviction notice, which hopefully he won't, but I told him to get all his paperwork and everything he has to have and put it in his car before he goes to work today, then I told him just to clean everything out of his apartment but something to sleep on and just stay there until Wednesday. I don't believe his landlord can go in and do anything. I believe, and hopefully I'm not wrong, that it's against the law for his landlord to go in and remove his stuff and change the locks, especially because there is no eviction notice. At least he won't be sleeping in his car, because any of you who live in New England know what the weather has been like here this winter, YIKES!!! I know he has caused this situation himself, but it would kill me to know he was sleeping in his car. </p><p>I think I'm doing the right thing here. I'm not offering money or a place to sleep, and he is going to his program, back on the suboxone and working so he has enough money for his hotel on Wednesday, so hopefully me telling him just to stay put until Wednesday wasn't the wrong advice. He seems to be on the right track as far as knowing what he has to do, so maybe he'll get back on track quickly this time. </p><p>I know everyones bottom is different and some need to go much deeper to realize what they need to do, but I've learned from experience, his bottom doesn't need to go to far before he starts pulling himself back up. I'm keep my fingers crossed XXXXXXX</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="KFld, post: 406771, member: 2442"] He called me last night, from work which is a good thing, and was really stressed out because his girlfriend can go stay with her mother and he can't. He had told his landlord he was going to be out of his apartment yesterday but his plan was to get up this morning, pack everything in his car and go to work, but he had no idea where he is going to sleep until Wednesday. He gets paid on Tuesday and plans on moving into a long term weekly rate hotel on Wednesday. He just called me again stressed about where he's going to sleep and I know he was hoping I would say I'll pay for his hotel until Wednesday. Instead I told him to do something, which I know isn't right, but!!!! He hasn't been served an official eviction notice, which hopefully he won't, but I told him to get all his paperwork and everything he has to have and put it in his car before he goes to work today, then I told him just to clean everything out of his apartment but something to sleep on and just stay there until Wednesday. I don't believe his landlord can go in and do anything. I believe, and hopefully I'm not wrong, that it's against the law for his landlord to go in and remove his stuff and change the locks, especially because there is no eviction notice. At least he won't be sleeping in his car, because any of you who live in New England know what the weather has been like here this winter, YIKES!!! I know he has caused this situation himself, but it would kill me to know he was sleeping in his car. I think I'm doing the right thing here. I'm not offering money or a place to sleep, and he is going to his program, back on the suboxone and working so he has enough money for his hotel on Wednesday, so hopefully me telling him just to stay put until Wednesday wasn't the wrong advice. He seems to be on the right track as far as knowing what he has to do, so maybe he'll get back on track quickly this time. I know everyones bottom is different and some need to go much deeper to realize what they need to do, but I've learned from experience, his bottom doesn't need to go to far before he starts pulling himself back up. I'm keep my fingers crossed XXXXXXX [/QUOTE]
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