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<blockquote data-quote="Signorina" data-source="post: 579352"><p>Hey Zar, just want you to know that I am reading and I care. I understand the heartache, it's the hardest part. I found this board the day that my difficult child stunned us by walking out of our lives. I spent that night and many nights after googling for answers ... Only to find out that there aren't any answers, no fixes, no directions, no troubleshooting faqs for a difficult child. And I found that really hard to accept. Still do. I wanted a plan to fix him. (Still do)</p><p> </p><p>Being powerless to " fix our child" goes against the very grain of our motherhood. We would fight to the death to save our child from anyone or anything that would hurt him...but that doesn't work when our child IS our child's greatest threat. </p><p> </p><p>Anyway, the night I found the cd board, I also found an essay that touched my heart. In fact, I had a line from it in my signature for many months...it went something like this " each day I wake up with a desperate need to DO something...and then I realize there is nothing I can do, I just have to let it be." </p><p></p><p>Just know that you are not alone.</p><p></p><p>( I will find the link to the essay and edit this post to include it.)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Signorina, post: 579352"] Hey Zar, just want you to know that I am reading and I care. I understand the heartache, it's the hardest part. I found this board the day that my difficult child stunned us by walking out of our lives. I spent that night and many nights after googling for answers ... Only to find out that there aren't any answers, no fixes, no directions, no troubleshooting faqs for a difficult child. And I found that really hard to accept. Still do. I wanted a plan to fix him. (Still do) Being powerless to " fix our child" goes against the very grain of our motherhood. We would fight to the death to save our child from anyone or anything that would hurt him...but that doesn't work when our child IS our child's greatest threat. Anyway, the night I found the cd board, I also found an essay that touched my heart. In fact, I had a line from it in my signature for many months...it went something like this " each day I wake up with a desperate need to DO something...and then I realize there is nothing I can do, I just have to let it be." Just know that you are not alone. ( I will find the link to the essay and edit this post to include it.) [/QUOTE]
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