Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
General Parenting
scene with-the ex argh!!
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 386124" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Your divorce agreement and/or custody order are still in effect unless you have gone back to court to get them changed or revised. The PO is over unless it was a lifetime order which I would doubt unless it was a very serious case...only very rare get lifetime orders. </p><p></p><p>You should never put your current spouse in the position of "talking" to your ex unless everyone gets along famously. You do not want to send one to threaten the other. Your current husband has no standing as a parent to your children. You are the mother, your ex is the father. Courts and cops get real sticky about steps getting involved. Real sticky. </p><p></p><p>It is much better to look at that old custody order and see what it says. If it says that he is to pick her up and drop her off at xxx time on xxx days..well email him or send him a certified letter telling him that from now on that drop offs and pick ups will be done at the police station. You dont have to go in, just meet in the parking lot. Tons of folks do it that way. Large cities have visitation centers you can do it at but you have to find one. Call social services. You could do it at the mall or at McDonalds or any public place. If all else fails, go to legal aid and see if you can have them draft a letter to him stating this. It is completely legal.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 386124, member: 1514"] Your divorce agreement and/or custody order are still in effect unless you have gone back to court to get them changed or revised. The PO is over unless it was a lifetime order which I would doubt unless it was a very serious case...only very rare get lifetime orders. You should never put your current spouse in the position of "talking" to your ex unless everyone gets along famously. You do not want to send one to threaten the other. Your current husband has no standing as a parent to your children. You are the mother, your ex is the father. Courts and cops get real sticky about steps getting involved. Real sticky. It is much better to look at that old custody order and see what it says. If it says that he is to pick her up and drop her off at xxx time on xxx days..well email him or send him a certified letter telling him that from now on that drop offs and pick ups will be done at the police station. You dont have to go in, just meet in the parking lot. Tons of folks do it that way. Large cities have visitation centers you can do it at but you have to find one. Call social services. You could do it at the mall or at McDonalds or any public place. If all else fails, go to legal aid and see if you can have them draft a letter to him stating this. It is completely legal. [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
General Parenting
scene with-the ex argh!!
Top