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<blockquote data-quote="AnnieO" data-source="post: 386136" data-attributes="member: 6705"><p>FWIW - if you asked him, even verbally, but especially written (email & text are nice for this), to NOT come in your house and he did anyway - that is TRESPASSING.</p><p> </p><p>It is NOT his home.</p><p> </p><p>Please, for the love of heaven, leave husband out of this. Or if you MUST involve him (and I do know, as a step-parent, he is at least somewhat involved), have him answer the door when ex shows up. Don't go ANY further. It WILL backfire on you. (I am a step-parent... been there done that!)</p><p> </p><p>If ex still acts like this, you may be able to have the court hold him in contempt for making derogatory remarks about you to difficult child.</p><p> </p><p>And if he thinks "nothing is wrong" - he is welcome to get a second opinion, <strong><em>at his own expense</em></strong>. Until he does (which I do not see him doing, given his lack of participation in her diagnosis/treatment to date), he has no room to talk about anything.</p><p> </p><p>And if he EVER threatens you? Call the COPS. Do not worry about difficult child on this one. Do NOT let him threaten.</p><p> </p><p>HUGS!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AnnieO, post: 386136, member: 6705"] FWIW - if you asked him, even verbally, but especially written (email & text are nice for this), to NOT come in your house and he did anyway - that is TRESPASSING. It is NOT his home. Please, for the love of heaven, leave husband out of this. Or if you MUST involve him (and I do know, as a step-parent, he is at least somewhat involved), have him answer the door when ex shows up. Don't go ANY further. It WILL backfire on you. (I am a step-parent... been there done that!) If ex still acts like this, you may be able to have the court hold him in contempt for making derogatory remarks about you to difficult child. And if he thinks "nothing is wrong" - he is welcome to get a second opinion, [B][I]at his own expense[/I][/B]. Until he does (which I do not see him doing, given his lack of participation in her diagnosis/treatment to date), he has no room to talk about anything. And if he EVER threatens you? Call the COPS. Do not worry about difficult child on this one. Do NOT let him threaten. HUGS! [/QUOTE]
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