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<blockquote data-quote="2much2recover" data-source="post: 650433" data-attributes="member: 18366"><p>First - Don't send the text - it will make you feel better for just a moment in time but truly, they will get nothing out of it. Second, if I were in your position, I would get the car back and sell it for whatever you can get out of it. </p><p></p><p>By the way - once children with ODD become adults - the diagnosis is Anti-social Personality disorder or being a sociopath. It's a horrible diagnosis and the disorder will continue to consume not only you, your family but everyone that stays involved with him. He is going to use whoever he can squeeze something out of because that is what a sociopath does, uses and abuses people. They have a total disregard of the feelings of others.</p><p>From the Mayo Clinic: <a href="http://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/antisocial-personality-disorder/basics/definition/con-20027920" target="_blank">http://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/antisocial-personality-disorder/basics/definition/con-20027920</a></p><p>Antisocial personality disorder is a type of chronic mental condition in which a person's ways of thinking, perceiving situations and relating to others are dysfunctional — and destructive. People with antisocial personality disorder typically have no regard for right and wrong and often disregard the rights, wishes and feelings of others. </p><p>Antisocial personality disorder signs and symptoms may include:</p><p></p><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Disregard for right and wrong</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Persistent lying or deceit to exploit others</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Using charm or wit to manipulate others for personal gain or for sheer personal pleasure</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Intense egocentrism, sense of superiority and exhibitionism</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Recurring difficulties with the law</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Repeatedly violating the rights of others by the use of intimidation, dishonesty and misrepresentation</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Child abuse or neglect</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Hostility, significant irritability, agitation, impulsiveness, aggression or violence</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Lack of empathy for others and lack of remorse about harming others</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Unnecessary risk-taking or dangerous behaviors</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Poor or abusive relationships</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Irresponsible work behavior</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Failure to learn from the negative consequences of behavior</li> </ul><p>Antisocial personality disorder symptoms may begin in childhood and are fully evident for most people during their 20s and 30s. In children, cruelty to animals, bullying behavior, impulsivity or explosions of anger, social isolation, and poor school performance may be, in some cases, early signs of the disorder.</p><p></p><p>Although considered a lifelong disorder, some symptoms — particularly destructive and criminal behavior and the use of alcohol or drugs — may decrease over time, but it's not clear whether this decrease is a result of aging or an increased awareness of the consequences of antisocial behavior.</p><p></p><p>Those with antisocial personality disorder tend to antagonize, manipulate or treat others either harshly or with callous indifference. They may often violate the law, landing in frequent trouble, yet they show no guilt or remorse. They may lie, behave violently or impulsively, and have problems with drug and alcohol use. These characteristics typically make people with antisocial personality disorder unable to fulfill responsibilities related to family, work or school. </p><p></p><p>Sorry to hear you have so much on your plate. I have had to deal with my daughter is is a sociopath and it is really tough to get to a point where you understand that it is them they really are like that and no, it is not your fault. Look around your family, his fathers family to clues who he acts like to see where this horrific DNA based behavior is coming from.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="2much2recover, post: 650433, member: 18366"] First - Don't send the text - it will make you feel better for just a moment in time but truly, they will get nothing out of it. Second, if I were in your position, I would get the car back and sell it for whatever you can get out of it. By the way - once children with ODD become adults - the diagnosis is Anti-social Personality disorder or being a sociopath. It's a horrible diagnosis and the disorder will continue to consume not only you, your family but everyone that stays involved with him. He is going to use whoever he can squeeze something out of because that is what a sociopath does, uses and abuses people. They have a total disregard of the feelings of others. From the Mayo Clinic: [URL]http://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/antisocial-personality-disorder/basics/definition/con-20027920[/URL] Antisocial personality disorder is a type of chronic mental condition in which a person's ways of thinking, perceiving situations and relating to others are dysfunctional — and destructive. People with antisocial personality disorder typically have no regard for right and wrong and often disregard the rights, wishes and feelings of others. Antisocial personality disorder signs and symptoms may include: [LIST] [*]Disregard for right and wrong [*]Persistent lying or deceit to exploit others [*]Using charm or wit to manipulate others for personal gain or for sheer personal pleasure [*]Intense egocentrism, sense of superiority and exhibitionism [*]Recurring difficulties with the law [*]Repeatedly violating the rights of others by the use of intimidation, dishonesty and misrepresentation [*]Child abuse or neglect [*]Hostility, significant irritability, agitation, impulsiveness, aggression or violence [*]Lack of empathy for others and lack of remorse about harming others [*]Unnecessary risk-taking or dangerous behaviors [*]Poor or abusive relationships [*]Irresponsible work behavior [*]Failure to learn from the negative consequences of behavior [/LIST] Antisocial personality disorder symptoms may begin in childhood and are fully evident for most people during their 20s and 30s. In children, cruelty to animals, bullying behavior, impulsivity or explosions of anger, social isolation, and poor school performance may be, in some cases, early signs of the disorder. Although considered a lifelong disorder, some symptoms — particularly destructive and criminal behavior and the use of alcohol or drugs — may decrease over time, but it's not clear whether this decrease is a result of aging or an increased awareness of the consequences of antisocial behavior. Those with antisocial personality disorder tend to antagonize, manipulate or treat others either harshly or with callous indifference. They may often violate the law, landing in frequent trouble, yet they show no guilt or remorse. They may lie, behave violently or impulsively, and have problems with drug and alcohol use. These characteristics typically make people with antisocial personality disorder unable to fulfill responsibilities related to family, work or school. Sorry to hear you have so much on your plate. I have had to deal with my daughter is is a sociopath and it is really tough to get to a point where you understand that it is them they really are like that and no, it is not your fault. Look around your family, his fathers family to clues who he acts like to see where this horrific DNA based behavior is coming from. [/QUOTE]
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