In other words, up to his old tricks. I don't want to write a book here, I have to go to work. My married 28 yr old Difficult Child has ODD. He's changed after some difficult years involving a restraining order and cutting all ties. He works, got married, has kids. Doing well but always the Difficult Child close to the surface. So now him and his wife, she's 24 and just like him, are saying they're moving far away and actually are right now in the place they want to move (to get their ducks in a row). The kids are left at the house with some "Dude" friend of theirs, all their friends are instructed to "stop by" while they're gone. The kids are 6 months and 2 years old. Pathetic! Well 2 days ago he called husband and says he needs 10 grand! Ha! Of course we are not giving them that, especially since she buys a new M Khors bag every week and they gamble and waste every dime! IDIOTS!!!! Last night he called and started his little seed planting lie, that he owes the IRS 8 grand, his whole tax return, and boo hoo, how can he move? etc......THIS IS A LIE by the way.....I didn't call him on it....but now I am fuming and want to text him something vile. We spent a lot of money buying him a honeymoon 1 and a half years a go, 6 months ago husband co-signed a car loan for 22 grand...for a 10 year old car! husband is not that bright, but a good hearted person, and 2 years ago my brother who died, we gave him his truck which he sold for 6 grand and kept the money. OK. I am nothing but good to him and he is such an awful scammer, always trying to get one over and lie. So ungrateful, but this last thing is such a punch in the heart. He doesn't owe the IRS jack @#$%! Of course I am not giving him money, . Please stop me from sending a vile text I will regret, I need him to keep making the car payments, but maybe I should just call him on that, what do you think? Ps They both have menial jobs that they can't ever hold, if they get some money...POOF...you know how it is.