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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 219047" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>klmno i laughed when i read that. you have made me laugh twice today.......yea you!! LOL. i have suggested that, i was even evaluated for that as well just to double check, yet i'm just crazy without a diagnosis!!! he totally flipped his lid. He would never ever go to a doctor at all. he's too paranoid, he's convinced their all out to get us!! their taking bribes, etc. they need to diagnosis BiPolar (BP) in so many ppl per year. he has his issues. i have no problem with mine. I said hey i got evaluation. and i found out i have this this and that. You should too. it'll help difficult child. Yet he choses to live in his chaotic life of getting up for work late everyday, arguing with supervisors on the job (been stepped twice already at his co.), not being able to maintain a loving relationship with anyone.</p><p> </p><p>Susie - funny you should say that. boy am i going to share now lol. when we divorced quite a many years ago, we actually split over 8 years ago, difficult child was not even 2 yet. His Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) issues, his anxiety, his anger was the reason we split. He couldn't seem to hanlde life and the pressures of life so well. we did counseling i tried my very best, etc. etc. i truly did. I thought ok we have a family to save. well than mr. pita started to stalk me, show up at our house, etc. it got a bit freaky. flowers, etc. yet it lasted longer than it should of. so i went to court got an order of protection in place, he than fought me for custody of difficult child. can you imainge?? LOL</p><p> </p><p>I fought him like an animal for 2 years on my own, and i won. I took out every book imaginable on family court laws, etc. wow did i sock it to him good. long story short i had the agency here in new york child protective blah blah blah spot check the apt. i wanted everything there for difficult child. i wanted to ensure that food, sleeping, etc. was all there. i also fought for strictly day visitation for hte first year unti she was older and than i had it moved to overnights. so he knows when push comes to shove i can do whatever it takes to ensure her safety. i have spoken to him on several occassions about his paranoia level, the stuff regarding the anxiety that he gives her, movies that she is not to watch, etc. so i have to check him every mos. lately it seems to ensure that hes' on board and doing the right thing for her. He does love her hands down he s' just too blinded to see he has some major issues there himself that need to be addressed and they only feed into difficult child's issues.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 219047, member: 4514"] klmno i laughed when i read that. you have made me laugh twice today.......yea you!! LOL. i have suggested that, i was even evaluated for that as well just to double check, yet i'm just crazy without a diagnosis!!! he totally flipped his lid. He would never ever go to a doctor at all. he's too paranoid, he's convinced their all out to get us!! their taking bribes, etc. they need to diagnosis BiPolar (BP) in so many ppl per year. he has his issues. i have no problem with mine. I said hey i got evaluation. and i found out i have this this and that. You should too. it'll help difficult child. Yet he choses to live in his chaotic life of getting up for work late everyday, arguing with supervisors on the job (been stepped twice already at his co.), not being able to maintain a loving relationship with anyone. Susie - funny you should say that. boy am i going to share now lol. when we divorced quite a many years ago, we actually split over 8 years ago, difficult child was not even 2 yet. His Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) issues, his anxiety, his anger was the reason we split. He couldn't seem to hanlde life and the pressures of life so well. we did counseling i tried my very best, etc. etc. i truly did. I thought ok we have a family to save. well than mr. pita started to stalk me, show up at our house, etc. it got a bit freaky. flowers, etc. yet it lasted longer than it should of. so i went to court got an order of protection in place, he than fought me for custody of difficult child. can you imainge?? LOL I fought him like an animal for 2 years on my own, and i won. I took out every book imaginable on family court laws, etc. wow did i sock it to him good. long story short i had the agency here in new york child protective blah blah blah spot check the apt. i wanted everything there for difficult child. i wanted to ensure that food, sleeping, etc. was all there. i also fought for strictly day visitation for hte first year unti she was older and than i had it moved to overnights. so he knows when push comes to shove i can do whatever it takes to ensure her safety. i have spoken to him on several occassions about his paranoia level, the stuff regarding the anxiety that he gives her, movies that she is not to watch, etc. so i have to check him every mos. lately it seems to ensure that hes' on board and doing the right thing for her. He does love her hands down he s' just too blinded to see he has some major issues there himself that need to be addressed and they only feed into difficult child's issues. [/QUOTE]
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