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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 174005" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Until the child is stable, the last thing I'd do is force a difficult child to help me clean up. I'd rather do it myself. When he is stable, he can do chores. You're not a bad mother. I'd just cut some slack until you can figure out how best to help the child so that he doesn't drive you nuts and you don't do things to make yourself feel badly about your parenting. I'd buy "The Explosive Child" by Ross Greene and live by it until the child is doing better. Tell you right now that your Fetal Alcohol Syndrome (FAS) son is going to be a huge challenge too, as Fetal Alcohol Syndrome (FAS) zaps a person of even being able to understand right from wrong and to make good decisions. It is organic brain damage and can't be fixed. It's good practice to learn to let some things so now if you are planning on adopting the child.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 174005, member: 1550"] Until the child is stable, the last thing I'd do is force a difficult child to help me clean up. I'd rather do it myself. When he is stable, he can do chores. You're not a bad mother. I'd just cut some slack until you can figure out how best to help the child so that he doesn't drive you nuts and you don't do things to make yourself feel badly about your parenting. I'd buy "The Explosive Child" by Ross Greene and live by it until the child is doing better. Tell you right now that your Fetal Alcohol Syndrome (FAS) son is going to be a huge challenge too, as Fetal Alcohol Syndrome (FAS) zaps a person of even being able to understand right from wrong and to make good decisions. It is organic brain damage and can't be fixed. It's good practice to learn to let some things so now if you are planning on adopting the child. [/QUOTE]
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