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<blockquote data-quote="exhausted" data-source="post: 532947" data-attributes="member: 11001"><p>Oh AG, this is so typical. My difficult child also tells people she has been sent to DT. She was only there as a safe holding place until she could get into state Residential Treatment Center (RTC). There is some kind of grandiosity in it. I don't know whether to believe these confessions or not. I have heard some interesting stories as well. My very nonviolent difficult child often talks about how tough she is and how she can fight??? Noone has ever seen her fight (not her best friend either), and yet she still brings it up in therapy.Who knows if he did these crimes or not? Drug addiction brings on narsisitic behavior-gradiosity is part of that. He doesn't want you there because he feels guilty and shameful is my guess-you are a trigger because he has to actually feel this pain when he talks to you. That is his problem to deal with and why he is in treaTMENT. I understand the feeling of not wanting to pay and pay and then get treated like dirt. If you can, try to seperate yourself from his anger-your getting it in your face, but you are not to blame.</p><p></p><p>We all get a pity party-how are we suppose to do this? The rollercoaster never ends and we are sick with the ups and downs. (((Hugs))) and try to do something for you that brings joy or that will let your heart begin to mend a bit.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="exhausted, post: 532947, member: 11001"] Oh AG, this is so typical. My difficult child also tells people she has been sent to DT. She was only there as a safe holding place until she could get into state Residential Treatment Center (RTC). There is some kind of grandiosity in it. I don't know whether to believe these confessions or not. I have heard some interesting stories as well. My very nonviolent difficult child often talks about how tough she is and how she can fight??? Noone has ever seen her fight (not her best friend either), and yet she still brings it up in therapy.Who knows if he did these crimes or not? Drug addiction brings on narsisitic behavior-gradiosity is part of that. He doesn't want you there because he feels guilty and shameful is my guess-you are a trigger because he has to actually feel this pain when he talks to you. That is his problem to deal with and why he is in treaTMENT. I understand the feeling of not wanting to pay and pay and then get treated like dirt. If you can, try to seperate yourself from his anger-your getting it in your face, but you are not to blame. We all get a pity party-how are we suppose to do this? The rollercoaster never ends and we are sick with the ups and downs. (((Hugs))) and try to do something for you that brings joy or that will let your heart begin to mend a bit. [/QUOTE]
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