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Self blame is self pity?
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<blockquote data-quote="so ready to live" data-source="post: 719003" data-attributes="member: 20054"><p>Pasa.</p><p> That's it for me--- profound sadness. I no longer am as judgemental of parents as I now know, that this can go terribly bad... It remains an everyday struggle to separate myself from my son's choices. </p><p></p><p>...and sometimes, "everything you can" is not nearly enough, in anyone's eyes, especially our own. Now I get that but I'm still left with the sadness which is so difficult to rise above. It seems you have a better grasp on the His Choices=His Outcome thing than I do. I get it's on him but how not to be enmeshed in the sorry state of his life, short of having no contact, I still struggle. I get tired of hearing the drama, of saying "I'm sure you'll figure this out". How painful that anyone would judge where we all have been, my shoes have walked it as have yours. The soles are tired and so worn. Prayers.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="so ready to live, post: 719003, member: 20054"] Pasa. That's it for me--- profound sadness. I no longer am as judgemental of parents as I now know, that this can go terribly bad... It remains an everyday struggle to separate myself from my son's choices. ...and sometimes, "everything you can" is not nearly enough, in anyone's eyes, especially our own. Now I get that but I'm still left with the sadness which is so difficult to rise above. It seems you have a better grasp on the His Choices=His Outcome thing than I do. I get it's on him but how not to be enmeshed in the sorry state of his life, short of having no contact, I still struggle. I get tired of hearing the drama, of saying "I'm sure you'll figure this out". How painful that anyone would judge where we all have been, my shoes have walked it as have yours. The soles are tired and so worn. Prayers. [/QUOTE]
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