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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 397413" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Do NOT send him. NOTHING good can come out of it. Wee has enough problems with-o whackie and dex playing mind games. Whackie will use this as an opportunity to try to impress upon Wee that he is to call her "mom" and that he owes it to her to give her all sorts of loyalty and koi. Let them know that family gatherings with Wee will include you AND appropriate notice or will not happen. Period. </p><p> </p><p>Does dex pay his child support? Regularly and on time? If he is not willing to take that responsibility then he has NO rights to spend any time with Wee. IF he does pay, is he involved in Wee's school and other problems in a supportive way? Or does he ignore them? Make them worse? No WAY in this world or the next one would he EVER get to spend time with MY child as long as he was not doing all that he can to help raise Wee to be a successful, productive member of society. Having his mommy pay his support (if she does) would NOT be enough to get unchaperoned access to Wee. Just in my opinion - that is if someone else pays his child support.</p><p> </p><p>Anyway, can ANYTHING good come from Wee spending time at dex and whackie's mercy? Regardless of anything else, he has literally no relationship with Wee and Wee is NOT a puppy that can be taken care of by just anyone. Wee is a sensitive, caring young man who needs all the love and support and good things possible - NONE of which dex has ever had ANY interest in supplying.</p><p> </p><p>IF you let Wee go, you are setting a precedent where Whackie and Dex can have unsupervised visits with Wee. They can argue in court that you had no problem with this visit so you shouldn't have problems with anything else they want to take Wee to do. I would NOT be surprised if this isn't in whackie's plans for Wee. </p><p> </p><p>I am so sorry that Wee has to have these issues swirling around him, and that he has to have ANY interaction with whackie.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 397413, member: 1233"] Do NOT send him. NOTHING good can come out of it. Wee has enough problems with-o whackie and dex playing mind games. Whackie will use this as an opportunity to try to impress upon Wee that he is to call her "mom" and that he owes it to her to give her all sorts of loyalty and koi. Let them know that family gatherings with Wee will include you AND appropriate notice or will not happen. Period. Does dex pay his child support? Regularly and on time? If he is not willing to take that responsibility then he has NO rights to spend any time with Wee. IF he does pay, is he involved in Wee's school and other problems in a supportive way? Or does he ignore them? Make them worse? No WAY in this world or the next one would he EVER get to spend time with MY child as long as he was not doing all that he can to help raise Wee to be a successful, productive member of society. Having his mommy pay his support (if she does) would NOT be enough to get unchaperoned access to Wee. Just in my opinion - that is if someone else pays his child support. Anyway, can ANYTHING good come from Wee spending time at dex and whackie's mercy? Regardless of anything else, he has literally no relationship with Wee and Wee is NOT a puppy that can be taken care of by just anyone. Wee is a sensitive, caring young man who needs all the love and support and good things possible - NONE of which dex has ever had ANY interest in supplying. IF you let Wee go, you are setting a precedent where Whackie and Dex can have unsupervised visits with Wee. They can argue in court that you had no problem with this visit so you shouldn't have problems with anything else they want to take Wee to do. I would NOT be surprised if this isn't in whackie's plans for Wee. I am so sorry that Wee has to have these issues swirling around him, and that he has to have ANY interaction with whackie. [/QUOTE]
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