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serious problem with 19 y/o difficult child what to do?
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<blockquote data-quote="rejectedmom" data-source="post: 573069" data-attributes="member: 2315"><p>I just wrote you a long response but it got lost in cyberspace. The jist of it is that you do not have to put up with his behavior nor should you. Bailing him out, covering for him, paying his legal fees, protecting him from paying for his crimes, etc. is enabling. Check the law in you state and see if you need to go through the eviction process to put him out. If so, you could try to get an order of protection against him which wil effectively evict him immediately. Then change the locks and do not give him a key. He is an adult who is abusing you and your easy child. Let him reap the consequences of his actions. </p><p></p><p>I am so sorry about your jewlery. My son stole some of mine also. He took my engagement ring but luckily I got that back. The setting was broken but the diamond intact. Other things... I never saw again. It hurts. </p><p></p><p> Unfortunately your difficult child's atrocious behavior won't stop as long as he is using. I am so sorry for your pain. It hoovers to be victimized by your own child. -RM</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rejectedmom, post: 573069, member: 2315"] I just wrote you a long response but it got lost in cyberspace. The jist of it is that you do not have to put up with his behavior nor should you. Bailing him out, covering for him, paying his legal fees, protecting him from paying for his crimes, etc. is enabling. Check the law in you state and see if you need to go through the eviction process to put him out. If so, you could try to get an order of protection against him which wil effectively evict him immediately. Then change the locks and do not give him a key. He is an adult who is abusing you and your easy child. Let him reap the consequences of his actions. I am so sorry about your jewlery. My son stole some of mine also. He took my engagement ring but luckily I got that back. The setting was broken but the diamond intact. Other things... I never saw again. It hurts. Unfortunately your difficult child's atrocious behavior won't stop as long as he is using. I am so sorry for your pain. It hoovers to be victimized by your own child. -RM [/QUOTE]
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