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<blockquote data-quote="meowbunny" data-source="post: 113527" data-attributes="member: 3626"><p>Kicking a child out who truly isn't ready to make it in this world is hard. I'm actually glad you decided to try another route.</p><p></p><p>However, you need to feel safe. Somehow, your son needs to get the message he cannot treat you the way he has. If this means he loses his things, so be it. You do not deserve to be verbally abused in your own home by anyone, let alone your child. You also should not have to be afraid of what will come after the verbal abuse. I don't know how you'll do it, but something really does have to be done about his behavior. Maybe make it that if he really wants to live in the living room, he has to show you respect? If he starts yelling or abusing you in other manners, then he is back to his room for the next hour? Put it in writing and have both of you sign the contract?</p><p></p><p>I'm sorry any of us are going through things like this with our older children. My daughter is nowhere near ready to live on her own. At the same time, the two of us living together is becoming a hell for both of us. She wants freedom, I want responsibility. The two goals aren't working so well. Hope yours goes better.</p><p></p><p>(((((HUGS)))))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="meowbunny, post: 113527, member: 3626"] Kicking a child out who truly isn't ready to make it in this world is hard. I'm actually glad you decided to try another route. However, you need to feel safe. Somehow, your son needs to get the message he cannot treat you the way he has. If this means he loses his things, so be it. You do not deserve to be verbally abused in your own home by anyone, let alone your child. You also should not have to be afraid of what will come after the verbal abuse. I don't know how you'll do it, but something really does have to be done about his behavior. Maybe make it that if he really wants to live in the living room, he has to show you respect? If he starts yelling or abusing you in other manners, then he is back to his room for the next hour? Put it in writing and have both of you sign the contract? I'm sorry any of us are going through things like this with our older children. My daughter is nowhere near ready to live on her own. At the same time, the two of us living together is becoming a hell for both of us. She wants freedom, I want responsibility. The two goals aren't working so well. Hope yours goes better. (((((HUGS))))) [/QUOTE]
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